ok i've lied to my bf so much and told him so many different stories about my past. Well, after several, several times and different stories we've went through. I know I'm telling him the truth now but of course he doesn't believe me and the other night we got into a fight because I didn't bleed a lot when we first had sex. I was a virgin but I had had a guy finger me and i bled. I thought it popped my cherry and he said that wasn't possible but I've seen research that says that it can. Well, he said hes asked people and he thinks i'm lying but i'm not. Anyways, I WAS WONDERING IF IT WOULD BE WORTH IT TOO GET A LIE DETECTOR TEST PAID FOR? WILL IT MAKE THINGS BETTER??????????????????
Sounds like you are learning the hard way about what happens when we break someone's trust. Trust is something that is earned through time and the fact that you've broken that trust on several occasions has lead to this painful situation. There is no way that you can really proove to your boyfriend your honesty except for explaining to him why you lied, what you've lied about and how much you want to stop lying. In the end, he is the only person who can decide if he wants to trust you again or not. But as I said, trust is gained through time and someone's actions. Find out if he is willing to try again and see if coming clean and being honest can fix the broken trust. As for not bleeding during your first sexual intercourse, I suggest he read up on the female anatomy and learn how it works on websites like www.the-clitoris.com or www.wikipedia.org At least this way, he will realize that it is a possibility and that you may be telling the truth.
I think with the amount of lies you have told its not worth it becos you will be there for hours while your bf asks you all these questions he thinks you have lied about. You need to learn from your mistakes and STOP LYING! its going to take a long time before your bf trusts you again if he ever does. It is true that your cherry could have been popped by the other guy but its fair enough that your bf questions you on it since you have lied alot. Give him time and space and see what happens, he could decide he has had enough of the lies and leave or you can prove yourself to him by not lying and being honest with him from now on. Goodluck.
no i dont. i think its lame to lie to people and the only thing that will help is trying to keep telling him the truth and not be so defensive. i know its hard but if you love this guy it def. worth it.
