should i leave when my moms giving me permission or would that hurt her more?

Leave home? If your mom gave you permission to leave, and did so without rancor or grudge, then why not…if that’s what you really want to do…

im almost 17 next month i would be idk how my mom would act and im a person were if someones crying ill cry with them not knowing the reason

im almost 17 next month i would be idk how my mom would act and im a person were if someones crying ill cry with them not knowing the reason idk if i should

It sort of depends how old you are. If were are over 19, then it would be time to start thinking about your life. But your profile says you are almost 17. I think 16/17 is too young to move out and live a live effectively. Your mother will be hurt, she would be upset when you move out- keep in mind that all her life and your life she was planning for you to move out around age 18 19 20. This will be a shock for her. Since you are worried about your mother’s feelings, I’m guessing you haven’t had a huge fight that makes you want to leave. Or she doesn’t abuse you or anything. So WHY do you want to move out? Moving out doesn’t make you cool or let you party more, because you will be too busy organizing electrical bills, saving up money to pay for power, buying food, cleaning toilets to go out with friends. Personally I think you should stay at home for a little while longer. But I don’t know the whole story so I might be wrong.

I think that if you include her then she won’t feel left out and might even be happy to help you move out. You can ask her to help you find a place to live, help you move and reassure by telling her you’ll come visit and invite her over too. Maybe she’ll be sad but just giver her a hug and I’m sure things will work out.

I think that if you include her then she won’t feel left out and might even be happy to help you move out. You can ask her to help you find a place to live, help you move and reassure by telling her you’ll come visit and invite her over too. Maybe she’ll be sad but just giver her a hug and I’m sure things will work out.