What do I do he kissed his ex

I found out when me n my bf were on a break he kissed his ex. I found this out from his ex who wants to get him back and then I found out from him after confronting him. Now I have trust issues and don’t know what to do so would appreciate if someone could help

Answer #1

Well technically your boyfriend did not actually cheat on you so the issue of not trusting him is a bit rich. You and him decided to take time out from each other, unless it was stipulated by you or him to be exclusive to one another during the “break” and not get involved with anyone emotionally or physically, then yes, he has cheated on you and you would be warrant to trust issues. If you and him had a cooling of stage without any rules than he can do whatever he wants, whether it is with his ex or another girlfriend as technically you were not a couple. I understand you would be hurt but some guys do think with their “d-cks” rather than their brains so if he isn’t too keen on you when he was dating you, it will be very easy for him to try it on with another girl or girls when they have mini break ups.

Answer #2

Samantha u r so true I agree with you !! the only point i want to add is that put yourself in his position !!

But also there is another thing that your guy is not stable, you cant trust him surely !! D_k or nor d_k this guy is useless who cant control his emotions and rather thinking of future, he thinks only just the present moment n forgets his commitment to you !!

Answer #3

trust is a very messy thing to play with…”he did it once, he can do it again” that the thought troubling you everyday. he does not have a strong character..because as soon as you guys got into a break he went kissing his ex..that is deffo not cool yo. make your point clear to him because it seems u really like this guy. tell him “what hpnd has hpnd…give him his freedom, but if he does anything that tampers the relation..thats it. “GAME OVER”. TELL IT TO HIM ON HIS FACE!!! if he respects you he will agree, but you still have to have a watch over him. if he disagrees, i jus saved u a hell lot of time that you could have blindly wasted.

Answer #4

Thanks for liking my point and I like your point as well, you are optimistic one but the surely a touch of reality so GAME OVER thinng I would surely do !!

Answer #5

Glad you could respect the ugly truth…:D

Answer #6

Dear your point is true and practical, hence ugly or lovely, one has to do it and I do respect that, no shame in that :)

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