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Well my ex is really like one of my guy friends that I grew up with since we were little. I have my boyfriend we have been going out for 1/2 yr now and I love him so much. But I think now my ex likes me again and I don't want that to happen. Yesterday at his house he was trying to flirt with me and kissed me but when he did I closed my lips real tight so he couldn't really then he tried again and did really kiss me but I didn't kiss him back. I want to tell my boyfriend because I don't want to lie to him and I feel really stupid now because they were kinda friends and I know that my boyfriend will beat him up for that. I'm really scared of losing him though, I love him so much and he is the best thing I ever got. I'm gonna tell my boyfriend later about this just that I'm scared there gonna be friends no more and that he might break up with me. Even though my boyfriend trusts me he knows that I get a little bit crazy. What should I do?
Dear stephyxo0, Don't tell your boyfriend about the EX. Nothing happened and since you will be more careful about being alone with the Ex this should never happen again. If the Ex tells your boyfriend he tried to kiss you...you can say yes he did but I wouldn't cause I don't like him. But I doubt he'll tell him, he may be feeling very guilty about it. Try to make plans with your boyfriend that does not include having the EX around. Avoid the Ex as much as possible and if the boyfriend ask why you're not very friendly towords the Ex you can tell him he is starting to freak you out and you don't know why you ever dated him. Now that I'm dating you I see how a person should be treated and leave it at that. Sue....good luck
How big was the gun your ex held to your head when he tried to kiss you (not once, but twice)? You put yourself in that situation and didn't get up and leave. You have to accept that you are 1/2 responsible for what happened - and if you do decide to tell your boyfriend, you should make that clear so he doesn't blame your ex and want to "beat him up". It takes two to tango. In the meantime, do not spend time alone with your ex again.
Meghan
