Next class I plan on asking my crush to the movies, but im really nervous. All of the other girls I've asked out I was sure that they liked me, but this girl is giving me mixed signals. How can I over come my fear of rejection so I can finally ask her out? I just need some tips to act smooth and get out of my fear of being rejected, so I can actually ask her out
Heres what I know
1) only things we have in common is motivation, running, music, the beach and partying 2) couple classes ago she slapped me pretty hard twice b/c I had her phone 3) I cought her looking at me weird today walking to class 4) she told me that this summer if she has a boy friend she's gonna sleep in the same bed with him at her beach house (I'm pretty sure its got sexual implications) 5) except for last class she pays attention to everyone but me and she's used to be quiet around me but now shes loosened up 6) this class she was very open toward the end and we listened to her ipod the whole last half of class (45 mins) and hovered over the song "into your arms" Does she like me, or do I even have a shot with her?
I just finished a psychology class and I remember my teacher always telling us to just go for it. The worst thing that can happen is this girl will say no. Why look at it from that point of view. If you don't ask her at all you may have lost a girl that could be really into you. I'm 17 and female, and I know if Junior High I called the guy I liked a jerk and did anything I could to just be close to him, one of those times would be slapping him also. If this girl doesn't like you and says no, its her loss. Don't fret over it.
Out of curiosity, what did you mean you "had her phone"? That sounded a bit odd to me. And did she slap you out of anger? Because that does sound a little suspicous to me. (Not trying to imply anything about either of you)
I honestly don't know enough to say. Especially given the fragmented details. Did she tell you about the boyfriend at the beach house in private?
her friend tossed me her phone and I held it playfully, not even opened it and she slapped me twice saying, "I don't mess w/ my phone." and no she said that this year she's going to try to bring a boy (she's single now) and she's gonna insist that he sleeps in the same bed as her
Coming from an adults perspective, I dont see any clues that she is interested in you.
thanks kaila thats a very fresh pov and you do have a point; it would be her loss
