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Jealous of ex and vacations?

My boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend and they are still friends. This was not a super serious relationship, however they did vacation togather a few times. The problem? We are planning on going away to one of the places my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend went. I love to travel, but this just makes me anxious because of several reasons 1) I am afraid that he will be thinking of her while we are on vacation 2) we are not going to be staying in as nice of a place as they did and this makes me feel like I’m not as special as her 3) he is excited to go on vacation with me, yet I feel like this is “going through the motions” because he has been there with his ex and wants to do many of the same things. Is my jealousy crazy?

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Answer #1

It doesn’t matter if your room is not as nice, maybe his financial situation was better then, or maybe she paid part of the room for an upgrade, you don’t mention this so we don’t know about that.

The fact that he wants to go with you, shows you that he loves YOU, and wants to make memories of YOU. It’s actually better because even though he has memories of his ex where you are going, you have the chance to make better memories, and because it is fresh on his mind, he probably won’t even be thinking of her.

Think of it like this..he may have gone to disneyworld with his ex, or even Las Vegas.. and now he wants to take you. There is only ONE disneyworld and Vegas so you can’t get mad about that. Lots of people like to go back to the same places that they’ve been before. But the good thing about it, is they want to take the person who means something and is special to them NOW. And that is you. Good luck, and have fun.

Answer #2

well you should give the guy a break,aslso keep your bf interest and he wont think about the ex chick,be fun,sexy,adventure etc,and making it a nice vacation for both of you by getting rid of your jealousy/concerns.even thuogh you the room may not be as nice,the time spent in your room should be extra nice,make wonderful memories,have confidence in yourself and your realationship.best wishes.

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