Is this the end of our friendship?

My best friend keeps blowing me off to go And hang out with her boyfriend,I get that She wants to spend time with him duh But I havent seen her for weeks because She’s been with him and I refuse to be near Him anymore,we always always fight and I cant take it anymore,but she never calls me, I have to call her,and if she does call me it’s like 5 minutes… What should I do

Answer #1

just tell her you need her to talk to you if you 2 are still going to be frands .. tell her you undrestand that she wants to spend time with her b/f but she has got to spend time with other people as well

Answer #2

First off, talk to her about it and make sure she realizes it. If she still doesn’t change…

IT SHOULD BE THE END OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP, Because I believe if a person REALIZES what they’re doing is WRONG and kept doing it, then they’re just stubborn and inconsiderate of your feelings. You don’t need a boy crazy friend. She’d probably run back to her friends once her and her guy is over. Taking her back or not is your choice. I personally wouldn’t.

But I can tell you this much, real friends wouldn’t choose their boyfriend over you. I love my boyfriend, believe me, he does everything humanly possible for me but I make a lot of time for all my friends. I don’t have super powers. If I can do it, your friend can to.

Answer #3

I have been in this situation. sit her down and talk to her that she keeps blowing you off. she may now even realize it. she needs to know how to handle spending time with her friends and boyfriend. boys come and go but friends are always there. she needs to realize what’s really important. just talk to her. I’m sure this isnt the end of your friendship

Answer #4

Maybe you need to take a break from her for a little bit… Go do your own things, make other plans, and when or if she decides she wants to spend time with you again, then you can choose whether or not you want to hang out with her… People can get very caught up when they’re dating… It’s not right but a lot of people do it without thinking… I wouldnt necessarily hold it against her, but why continue to make plans with someone who will just keep disappointing you? Odds are she’ll be back eventually…

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