How do I tell my bff that a guy is playing her without ending our friendship?

So this guy said she likes my friend in September but I caught him talk bad about her around her back. So I told her and she didn’t talk to him for a while and about 3 weeks ago he told her that he doesn’t like her because she is ugly and dirty. He claims he said all of those things because he thought she didn’t like him. But I don’t buy it. Also she is choosing him over me and she only knew him for 3 months and we knew each other for 3 years. : /

Answer #1

Most you can do, as a good friend, is to warn her. She has already chosen him over you so the friendship is tarnished. Warn her and respect her choice and remain friends, if she allows it. If she does not believe you, well then when she finds out the truth, she will know that you always had her back.

Answer #2

Its your friend decision, its nice that you care about her. But let her make her own mistakes. Cause she will learn who was their for her and who wasnt.

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The best thing to do in this situation is to not say anything. Allow her to make her own mistakes and in the end she will come to you crying, but all you can do is to be there for her.

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Answer #7

Yeah just sit back and be a good friend to her, anything you say to help her to assist her to open her eyes probably won’t work and will only cause her to resent you. Trust me because right now two of my friends have barely spoken to each other for months because of similar things you have mentioned above. Both are hardheaded and I try to stay out of there way, same with the other girls bf who is a tight friend of mine. He is lost what to do and I so dislike choosing sides.

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