Is she ready?

I waited until I was 18 to lose my virginity and I kind of regret it. But that’s just me. Sex WILL change the way things are. It will. It willbe a very emotional thing for her and unless you can handle that don’t. You might not understand how much of an impact it really will have on her. It’s not “just sex”. It’s her giving seomthing very special of herself to you in a very intimate way. So, talk to her about it. Do some research. But, wait until she is ready. And, don’t force it. Hell man. Get married to her first. That would be the right thing to do. Just because most of society is filled with a bunch of hooey and non-sense about how you need sex in your life or you’re not normal. Ha. It’s ok to take things slowly. Don’t feel that your relationship isn’t going anywhere if that is how you feel. Think about this. IF you get her pregnant (it could happen) you are young and so is she. But your youth goes away when that child is born and so does hers. No college because you’ll have to get a job to support the kid. Not saying it’s going to happen. But, bet you didn’t think about that did you?

well it sounds to me like your doing just fine…just go by what you feel…if she acts like she likes it then do it agian…if she starts pullin away or says somethin then don’t do it its that simple…but do make sure she knows that you do like he either way…I was 15 when I lost mine and don’t regret it at all

This is something that you should be discussing with your girlfriend, not strangers. You should be able to communicate your feelings with her, and being together that long. You think that she might be ready because she lets you touch her breasts? Sex is a lot more indepth than that, besides your relationship seems to be surviving just great without it…so why complicate it? Trust me, sex WILL change your relationship, and having premarital sex usually ends in heartache for young teens. I suggest if you dont want her to think you just want sex, maybe you should wait until shes ready, and brings up the subject.

Seems like you’re both ready. Just think over the possible consequences.

yeah then she’s horny.she’s the innocent type who want to wait till marriage.she’s ready but scared.

but angelfire has a point.sex is an emotional thing.