is it wrong that you want to be dead because of your moms death

my mom died last year on the 20th of jan an dnow I feel like I should of died with her. Is that so bad?

Answer #1

heey look my parents died TOGETHER in an accendent from a mounth.. @ de beginning I felt the same but then I thought they really wouldn’t want me 2 be crying and feeling like hell if they were alive am I right? so I made it ma motivation 2 become a better person so I think you should do the same p.s: it’s normal 2 cry but you have 2 get over it and complete your life but don’t forget her and like I told you make it your motivation :):) best wishes foth both of us hehe :):)

Answer #2

Grieving is normal. But since it has been a while, you might want to see if it’s depression too…

Answer #3

After my father passed away I felt a terrible emtyness inside. Its natural when you feel such a connection with someone who has passed that you feel that the only way to kill the hurt is to kill yourself. But Dale and moe have a point to kill yourself would dishonor her role as a mother because she raised you to be strong. When you pray for those who have left this world it blesses the both of you. There is emotion that brings Her G-d and yourself closer to each other. Good luck.

Answer #4

im soo sorry to hear that! if my mom died I would feel the same . but, even if you hear it all the time beleive it, your mom would want you to move on and live a long healthy life without you thinking that way.

hang in there and remember your mom the way she used to be.(:

Answer #5

Jesus gives comfort. Try him. It is a sin to wish to die. Repent and live your life fully.

Answer #6

would your mum want you 2 be dead? I dont think so. look its normal 2 feel that way but I think your mum would want you 2 ave a good life. so hang on. and know she’s always watching you and im also sorry I know how hard it is 2 lose someone close to you.!!

Answer #7

No, it’s normal to feel sad and guilt when someone you love dies. Especially your mother. Just know that your mom wouldn’t want you to feel this way. I’m really sorry for your loss and you hang in there. :)

Answer #8

Sorry about your loss, And thats normal, but like Moe214 said..

Your mom wouldnt want that, she would want you to live a great life! and make the most out of it.

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