Is he using me? because im lovn' it

OMG ok..so theres this guy at my school. Hes like asian and stuff..hes soo cool and fun to b with..so ok it was soo awkward because like we were in the car at the back…at night…going back to school from Mt. High…I was sitting next to him..he touches my leg…I tough his leg back..haha it was soo weird..then all of the sudden..hes fingering me…OMG that was the best day ever! but..whats soo weird that im not sure if he likes me but that doesnt bother me…but I know he LOVES pleasuring me…which I love that too…but then at the same time..is he using me? but then on the other hand I LOVE IT!! what should I do???

Answer #1

I dont know how ANY girl can feel good about being used! Sex isnt a game. It comes with emotional consequences. By the way, how old are you?

Answer #2

haha ok because if he likes it..then might as well enjoy it

Answer #3

well uhmm that is soo true but no one actually likes him at school because …well I don’t know…we go to a small private scchool so yea..not much girls around

Answer #4

im only 15 and I will find my man one day lol

Answer #5

If you’re only gonna be in it for the feeling of good sex, go for it…use him as well.

Answer #6

Yeah, if you wanna go for it, go for it! Just don’t let your feelings get the best of you. Good Luck!

Answer #7

upto you.. but I personally wouldnt, I wouldnt want him telling his friends and loosing respect from every guy.. cause guys usually prefer good girls for a serious relationship and if hes going to get everything out of I\t with out goingout with you then all his mates will expect the same in return :) but then again you do enjoy it..

hmmm…

why dont you find yourself a man??

Answer #8

It seems like he’s moving fast, so his only intention may be to get into your pants. You may love it now, but you won’t later on when he goes for another girl. =)

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