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Is he really into me for me, should I wait around?

There’s this guy that is extremely adorable, probably the cutest guy that I’ve ever talked to on a relationship level. We’ve only hung out maybe 4 or 5 times, but I feel like I’m starting to have feelings for him. He’s someone I can strongly relate to, and I feel like we really understand eachother. We haven’t had sex or messed around at all because I told him I’m not ready, and he said he respects that. But still, he tries almost every time I’m with him. We’ve been talking every night, but I haven’t heard from him in a few days. The last couple of days I did talk to him, we made plans and then he dissed me at the last minute. Do you think he’s really into me, or just wanted sex? Should I try calling or texting him, or should I wait for him to call?Or possibly just forget about him and move on? Maybe I get attached too quickly. Can someone please give me some good advice about guys :)

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Answer #1

You need to reread this again & again!>>We haven’t had sex or messed around at all because I told him I’m not ready, and he said he respects that. But still, he tries almost every time I’m with him.**>>He only wants sex! The fact that he hasnt talked to you in a few days, and stood you up pretty much says it all! MOVE ON!

Answer #2

I can sum up the answer pretty easy “But still, he tries almost every time I’m with him.”- that one sentence shows in reality he doesn’t respect you at all. if he did he would not push you like you say.

Just forget about it. he’s only after one thing.

Answer #3

wait for him to call, he should want you., second, in my opinion he sounds like a few guys I know who are all players, if you have mutual friends your best bet would be getting their input last thing you want is to feel used and if he has a notorious history of it, well actions speak louder then words and you should rest assured he hasn’t changed his ways.

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