Will guys really wait?

Okay so if you have had sex with your boyfriend like everyday for 9 months and you ask if you can stop and wait until marriage, would they really wait? Or do they just say that to make you think you will so you will think their in it for you, just so they can have sex more?

Sorry if this made no sence, basically what im saying is will a guy wait a couple years to have sex again after you have already started?

Answer #1

you should have thought about sleeping with him before you did. you cant just make a guy wait. they’ll either end up cheating on you, or dumping you.

unless he’s diffferent… but from what I’ve noticed all guys are the same.

Answer #2

Hell no! That is like paralyzing an all-pro althete and telling him he might gain mobility in a couple years. I’m sorry but I was this poor fellow I’d dump you faster than you could take it back just for thinking something that terrible.

Answer #3

well I guy can’t wait for long, but do it twice a week. But looking at your picture I think you can get him whipped. Guys are pigs because we are just like leaches we need stuff to survive

Answer #4

I think he would wait… maybe. If what you said you’ll do other stuff, im guessing that means oral? Cus if that was the case with my boyfriend he would be totally fine with not having sex until marraige. haha.

Answer #5

I dont know about the waiting thing. When I first met my boyfriend I asked him if he would wait till we got married and he said yes…and he did wait for a really long time…I went out with him for a year without him asking for sex or anything…but as soon as we started having it, he would wait. When we started after a couple of months I told him I changed my mind and wanted to wait again…and he said ok…but he would ask me for sex all the time, or hed be like can we just do it once…it started getting annoying..but were married now so…he doesnt have to wait anymore

Answer #6

Ha he already is whipped, he even admits it. We haven’t been doing it as much like once or twice a week and he hasnt been complaining. I just want to stop having sex, we can still do other stuff though I don’t care about that. I’m just tired of thinking im pregnant because something always happens and I wanted to wait til I was married before I did at all we just got caught up in the moment..

Answer #7

bastrdassinjun>thats pretty harsh.

Guys view sex differently then girls do. A man “cut off” from sex by the woman he cares for will believe he is no longer loved. Sex is a measure of love for him. Men and Sex for Women: Many men do not feel loved by women unless sex is involved. They feel the relationship begins when sex begins and ends when sex ends. These men often push sex before women are ready, often killing any chance for a relationship to form or grow. If he truly loves you, he will think about your feelings, and respect them. He isnt going to die if he doesnt get sex. There are plenty of other ways to release the sexual tension.

Answer #8

yeah, as bad as it sounds, I pretty much agree with taramarie…

Answer #9

I DONT THINK THEY WILL WAIT MY BOY-FRIEND ONLY WAITED 5-7 MONTHS SO PROBALLY NOT THATS WHY I SHOULD HAVE MADE THEM WAIT TIL I WAS OLDER!

Answer #10

I’M IN THE SAME SITUATION AND IF HE TOLD you HE WOULD WAIT PROBABLY HE MEANT IT!!!

Answer #11

Why are guys such pigs!? Seriously.

Answer #12

if he accually loved you he will wait !!

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