Should I move away to be with The One?

this is how it go’s really when I was 12 going on 13 I got my 1st b/f ever & had my 1st kiss & everything will we were so happy & in love I mean madly in love & everything we were together for 4 1/2 years I think we would still be together to this day but my family moved & then his family moved & will its almost been a year from when we broke up & moved away from each other with are familys but I went back to my old town this summer to see my friends & family there & to see him bc about 2 months ago he started called me 24-7 agn & me & him talking all the time & he moved have to are old town & all & when I went there we hung out & sent the hole time I was there together me huged & madout agn & everythung & you can tell all are feelings for each other were still there but then I had to come back home bc this is my last year of high school but it sucks bc I want to be with him so bad. he told me I could go live with him bc he has his own place & that I can finsh school up there with all my friends & him witch I like that idea but the thing is my dad is sick & all the docters keep saying he might die & I want to spend all the time I can with my dad but I really love this Guy & hes my everything always has been & he even asked me to be with him & to marry him but I don’t know what to do please someone help me asap

Answer #1

im the same, im 15 going on 13 and my boyfriend of 3 months asked me to marrie him on valintines day but he moved to america, I really want to move in with him but I cant bc of my mum and dad… if I was you I would tell your boyfriend what is happning with your dad, and you should stay with your dad untill he gets better or pass, if your boyfriend really loves you he would understand… I know its hard, but if I was you I would stay with my dad and spend as much time with him as I can… your boyfriend will always be with u, You 2 will be happy together forever :)

Answer #2

By reading your story i also can remember my own. all most all same love story happens with youngsters. Life is like that only. You have to accept it. any way. wish you good luck.

Answer #3

If you have the opportunity to spend time with your dad who may pass away, the smartest thing to do wud be to spend as much time with him as possible. Becos if you leave, and your dad passes, you’ll regret not spending time with him. It sounds like this guy wants to be with you, but it just wont work right now becos there are more important things, like your dads life, that takes priority, but it sounds like you will end up together later if you are both willing.

Answer #4

u 2 did not really help me what so ever but ok & ya i know if it ment we will end up together no matter what in time

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