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Im 16 and pregnant

I really don’t know what to do.. Im so lost =[ I’ve been with the babys dad for almost two years and we really want this baby but if we keep it our parents will kick us both out! Can anyone give me some good advise?

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Answer #1

As a mother I can sit here and tell you that I would be dissapointed in my daughter and that I would still love her. But I really don’t know what I would do if it was my daughter. Nobody knows untill they are faced with the situation. You do however need to tell them sooner rather than later. It would be best to hear it from you, not your expanding waistline. All the advice I can give you is to stay calm (even when they’re yelling), listen to them and try to reason with them. Tell them clearly what you want and explain how you’re going to do it. That brings me to something else, before you tell anyone, you and your boyfriend need to sit down and discuss how things will work. Where will the baby live, who will support the baby?, who will take care of the baby. That kind of stuff. Trust me, your parents will ask all of that and more. The two of you also need to come up with a plan on how to buy the baby’s stuff (diapers, clothes, formula). Your parents are not going to want to do all this, they raised their child it’s really not fair to make them raise another.

So, come up with a plan, then talk to them. Go from there and remember whatever life throws at you, you can handle, You’re a strong independent mother (soon to be) and mother’s would do ANYTHING to protect their children, even if that means standing up to your parents.

Answer #2

all I can say is your parents must be VERY strict on you and they shouldn’t chuck you out umm why dont you be upfront with them and tell them the truth or listen 2 what they have to say or do ok

hope I helped;)

Answer #3

There are also probably many safety net organizations that you can rely on in your area. If you REALLY are sure that your parents are going to flip and kick you out, I suggest that you visit your local free clinic or family planning clinic for advice before telling your parents (yes, you have to, sooner or later). They can tell you about or give you brochures to teen pregnancy aid organizations that might be able to support you and counsel you through this. Good luck!

Answer #4

hhhmmm thats a tuff one…I think your ganna have to convince your parents to help you out…wood they really kick u (and there new grandchild) out?

Answer #5

If they’re willing to kick their daughter and her unborn baby out on the streets, they’re shitty parents!

Sit with them, make them LISTEN. Tell them that you’re sorry but no matter what they say, you are keeping your baby. Tell them if they love you and respect you, then they should support you as is their duty as parents.

If they won’t listen to reason give me their number and I’ll bloody well speak to them!

Sending a pregnant teenager out on the streets is murder in my opinion. You’re 16, you don’t know how to survive on your own yet! What if something terrible happened to you? They would surely regret it.

I’m 19 and had my baby 4 months ago and my mother is proud of me. My oldest sister was also 19 when she had her first.

It’s not the end of you’re life. It’s just getting started.

Best wishes and good luck.

p.s don’t take any bullshit from them!

Answer #6

yea they would..it’s so hard.

Answer #7

yea they would..it’s so hard.

Answer #8

yea they would..it’s so hard.

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