Im 13 is it okay?

Well from the looks of it,your not ready because your very nervous,think of what your relationship will be like once it’s done and think about how life will be once your virginity has been taken,you only get one virginity,and once it’s gone there is NO turning back no matter how much you regret it. You should honestly wait until you know for sure that your ready,for him it’s just his hormones kicking in now and it’s making him want sex now but soon it will slow down and once you both have done it with each other you could seem confused on why you did it in the first place,just think more about it and think about how it will affect you guys’ relationship afterwords cause what you picture is WAY different from actual life. Good Luck!

da answer iz no.n yea age aint da issue bt you should consider it seriously! you probably think that since he loves you and kan w8 4 you that long den he probably really loves you bt da think iz it mite b true and it mite not, why want you let him w8 4 a lil while until yall old enoff and if he wanna call it off because he kant w8 den you no its not worth it. and you should also think about da possiblity that u’ll b pregnant or have sum kind of sexual disease.

I lost my virginty based on a promise…sweety dont do it for real im 16 so trust me

Okay these two are partly right. But don’t listen to either of them completely. They’re right because you have to make sure you’re fully ready and not just doing it for him. And waiting until marriage is a personal choice and Lovedoctor should not be telling you that is what’s right. There is risks of pregnancy and STD’s but if you are careful and learn to be safe then these are just things that try to scare you from having sex. Sex is a big step so make sure that you are ready to take it. But waiting until marriage is not the answer unless you choose. talk it over with him. For starters. If you cannot tell him that you are scared. you are not ready. If you cannot talk to him fully about sex you’re not ready. He should know how you feel. it’s up to you to tell him when you’re ready. and you should not feel pressured by him. me and my girlfriend are both 15 and we talk openly about sex. And I’m going to wait for her making sure I don’t put any pressure on her. And have you done other things besides sex? if you haven’t then maybe it’s something to take into consideration. if it doesn’t feel right then sex should wait. but if it does feel right then make sure you talk to him and let him know how you feel.

I dont think you should even be thinking about having sex at your age. You may think youre ready but at 13 youre not. You need to focusing on getting an education. Forget him and make him wait.

I also recommed taking sex education classes to become familiar with “sex”.

Maybe hold off until you’re read every story on here about 13 and 14 year olds getting pregnant (or the monthly FEAR of being pregnant)…There’s also the knowledge of HOW TO PUT ON A CONDOM…have you studied up on that? It’s not just a “slip in and do it”…

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PS…Boys have been trying to talk girls into “doing it” since the beginning of time…it’s hormones. He might be ready to screw, but is he ready for all the possible consequences…hmmm?? Ask him!

I actually doubt that he is any more ready than you are at all. A typical guy will feel like he is ready to have sex simply because his hormones are telling him that is the case. Being a guy I know that it’s easy to think you’re ready, but until the day you do it, you won’t know just how good it is to wait. If I were you, I would tell him that you’re both too young and that this is something that really should wait. For now, you should both be concentrating on school, rather than something as ‘adult’ as this.

Tell him that you do respect the fact that he wamts to do it, but you are simply not ready for it. The chances are that neither of you know all that much about sex and what you should/ shouldn’t do. If he cares about you, then he will respect your opinion and will wait for you. At your age, you do not want to be getting yourself into this kind of thing. Bragging is a popular concept for young guys (believe me, lol) and if you were to trust this guy with your body, he may not end up being the only guy who knows about it. At the tender age of 13, you do not want to be thought of an easy or sexual person. This is something that really has to wait.

Being mature when you consent to have sex is pivotal and the odds are that you are not yet mature enough to get yourself into something like this. Of course it is a tempting option and we all start out really curious in relation to sex, but at the end of the day, we all need to be patient. You have only been dating for six months and you have said that your boyfriend has been patient with you, which implies he suggested this to you earlier on. He needs to keep his mind above his belt and he needs to think about this from your perspective too. If he can’t do that, then he probably isn’t right for you anyway.

It pays to be patient, so talk to your boyfriend and tell him that this isn’t something you’re ready for right now (even if you get the feeling that you are). You don’t want to do something that you’ll regret, so make sure he understands this. iknowbest gave you some good advice, but his answer is ignoring the fact that you are a young person and it is easy to be tempted into doing things which could have future repercussions. Just do things at your own pace and do not be too hasty in relation to this. Take your time and don’t feel pressured :).

I think you should talk to him about how you feeel cause no one else can really say weither you are to young or not its all your choice on when you feel you are ready ! im only 13 and I talk to my boyfriend openly about sex and im ready so maybe you should just talk !

not really for obne its illegal and for a second thing you and him noth have no sex education at all but if your going to have sex you need to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids get pregnant and stds is because of a lack of sex education howevere it would be best to wait a few years untill your around 16 so not only will you be a bit more mature and confident in making important decisions like if yyour ready for sex but you would have had lots of time to learn about it too

The answer is a big fat NO!

First of all, you are not married. Secondly, you’re way too young. I visit this website thinking I’m going to give advice to people in their 20’s about love and relationships and all I ever see is very young teens talking about sex. I’m only 24, and when I was 13 sex was not such a big topic. If it was then I was really naive.

Darling, you’re not ready at 13 and neither is he. There are many many many other responsibilites that are attached that really married couples are equipped to handle.
All I can say is, please reconsider and think about all the risks involved which include preganancy #1 and also the risk of STDs.

You’ve just made it to teenager, don’t jump into adulthood.

N O!! Do not do it! If he really loves you he will respect your opinion. And later on down the road you will definitely regret it

and remember that iknowbest doesnt always “know best” while hes information was helpful I beleive my and the other girls advice was just as helpful

Im 13 and i have been thinking about sex to but i just dont know if i will live in guilt or be okay i really want to but like idk

im 17 and belive me when i say ppl think sex is a big deal butt its not wait till your married!!