how did you overcome your shyness ?

im only shy around people I dont know…but after once I get to know you and we stay in contact I get over bein shy and you see the real me…but if we just say hi and thats all and I dont see you in months im not going to get over bein shy, I may but it will be a long while…as I said but after I get to know you, im not shy anymore and you see the real me

im the same as lish54. once people get to know me that well, I can be the loudest thing you’ll ever hear. but if I dont, people might think im proud, or just plain boring, when im actually really shy.

and I realize im not really answering your question. lol

mm just do it chances are people arent guna think your a fool or anything if you do but if you dont do it ul kickurslf so much later and I know its bloody hard ay but yah

I waas one of the shyest people you know!~! Slowly I just stated seeing things differntly. I still am but not as much. It was hard. I hated it! When I had my first cruch I was so cry I couldn’t stop smiling and I would talk very softly and low and barely!! He thought I was too shy and that broke my heart. it was just the way I was. I changed when I got my boyfriend…he broke me out of my shell. I just got comfortable around him which made me less shy. he made me feel confedient sometimes but Most of the time I wasnt and still am not. It does take a lot of confidence but you can do it.

Step up and talk to people more and smile a lot when you do. Just that makes you look more confedent. keep it cool.

As you get older you start to become more socially active. I used to be really quiet and in the past month I’ve found myself to be more talkative. If you want to be more confident you need to focus on the things you have, and not the things you don’t. Be thankful you have a roof over your head, be happy you have food to eat, etc. because there are people in this world who have absolutely nothing.

I never did