if I end up pregnant? horrible situation!!

the last guy was a player, he cheated on me. Then he used me for sex when I didn’t know he had a girlfriend…I havnt seen that guy for a while now. I didn’t intentionally lie…I told my mother at first that I was seeing him but now since she talked to my dad they’re trying to stop me… I also didn’t mean to lie to this guy about taking the pill…but he was sitting right there telling me to take it, and I havnt touch meds in 3 and a half years. If I ended up pregnant I would definetly do my best even if noone wanted to help, Im old enough to make my own decisions and know what im getting into! I’d be the best mom I could be to a child so don’t sit there for a moment and tell me I’m not able to be a mother…but at this point in time I don’t want a child…I jsut wanted some fun and he said he doesn’t like condoms so it’s not all my fault that were in a situation like this.

Right. So you’ve changed your mind about trying to conceive then? Or are you just lying to the this guy too? You’re lying to everyone, you cant make an adult decision to save your life, and you honestly think you’re ready to be in charge of a completely helpless infant? You cant explain lying about this. You just have to grow up already and face them and tell them. And seriously consider using birth control, because you definitely arent ready to be a parent.

well I let my mom know last night that I was actually sneaking out to see the guy…but she already knew. She didn’t mind she just told me to be safe.

As for TY I was trying to concieve with my ex-boyfriend, we both wanted it but then I found out he was cheating on his girlfriend with me I told him off, and I don’t expect him to return to my life. This new guy was the one I lost my virginity with a long time ago, and well It just seemed right with him (not concieving just the sex) I understand anytime you have sex you CAN get pregnant, Im willing to be responsible if that happens, I was just sorta hoping not because of the situation and the fact that his education is important to him and I might be moving at the end of the month.

well maybe you should find out if your pregnant first then worry about what your gonna tell everyone.

Just say “Hey, the pill doesn’t always work I guess,” While shrugging. You decided to screw around, and pill or no pill you should suffer cause you lied.

A little research would have shown you when she was trying to get pregnant.

You should have used a condom, if he didnt like them, then you shouldnt have had sex with him…

For now, all you can do is wait it out…