How can i become beautiful and get my first kiss?

No one has ever told me I'm beautiful. I know I shouldn't care what other people think, but no guys like girls with small boobs and love handles. I'm upset, I'm in 9th grade and haven't had my first kiss yet. I want to be gorgeous. I play basketball and lacrosse, I figured guys like athletic girls. I have other problems too, but if someone would like to help me I cant say it on here. Their very embarrassing and personal. Many people on here are great with advice, and I feel uncomfortable asking my friends this stuff. Thank you so much.

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ANSWER #1 of 20

everyones just jealous of how pretty and cool and awesome you r!!! theyre too nervous to admit it kuz theyre just too jealous...and they think youll beat them if if they say that kuz your strong! lol.


ANSWER #2 of 20

cs

Why Did He Kiss Me?
ANSWER #3 of 20

here's some cool makeup tips,
i could share with you to make you beautiful.
www.apply-sexy-make-up.com

xoxo,
angel ZA

How do I know he wont kiss her again?
ANSWER #4 of 20

Dont worry I feel the same way.;[
Im so freaking ugly.

Kiss yyour kuzn?
ANSWER #5 of 20

Id tell u ur beautiful because i bet u are but u have no pics of urself up

What if he asked me out and kissed me and I don't like him?
ANSWER #6 of 20

Hi ! I can tell you that in some point I feel the same way, too. But I don't care just because I know, and I can assure you, that you haven't met right people. There are so many people who haven't elementary rules of politeness. But I think that someday, nevertheless, you will meet the right boy/man and you'll be sincerely happy because you'll know him... Be yourself ! Nicolina

How it ok to kiss with elastics?
ANSWER #7 of 20

Hi ! I can tell you that in some point I feel the same way, too. But I don't care just because I know and I can assure you that you haven't met right people. There are so many people who haven't elementary rules of politeness. But I think that someday, nevertheless, you will meet the right boy/man and you'll be sincerely happy because you'll know him... Be yourself ! Nicolina

First Kiss
ANSWER #8 of 20

Hun, everyone is beautiful. You're god's creation, therefore, you're beautiful.
And about the first kiss part, just wait, it'll come soon.
Yeah, some guys like athletic girl's, but some don't.
It doesn't matter if you have small boobs, and love handle's.
What matter's is your personality.
& you seem like a quite amazing girl.

Just chill out & wait for the right guy to come along and sweep you off your feet.
Don't go out looking for it, because then it'll just make it harder on you.

Good Luck.

Question bout first kiss
ANSWER #9 of 20

well noone is ugly in this world no matter wat ne one says or doesnt say u are beatiful and dont ne one need to tell u that for u to kno even if u think ur not u r and noone can ever change that and u nt got ur first kiss yet because it is not ur tme to get it but there os some one out there for u,u just havent found that one yet just give it sum time like i sed everyone has a soul mate

hi beauties
ANSWER #10 of 20

you are NOT ugly. only wear a little bit of make up and dress in what is comfortable to you. dont be somebody else. they should like you for you and not who you wanna be. I did that and my first kiss sucked. I stayed with him for another year though. we just never kissed after that.date him first. you know. make sure he really likes you. some guys kiss and tell.

Whats kissing really like?
ANSWER #11 of 20

you want to know what one thing makes you the most attractive to a guy... confidence . you dont need to become beautiful you need to start seein yourself as beautiful before other people can. But try walking the coridoors at school with your head held up .. feeling confident and I gurantee ull turn more heads than you did before. oh and be sure to smile at anyone who catches your eye as you walk past.

When did you have your first kiss?
ANSWER #12 of 20

Awh, I want to help (: If you want feel free to message me and we can talk from there. But honestly, everyone is beautiful. For some of us, it takes more than just someone telling them that. Don't worry, when the time if right, you'll get your first kiss! (: xxx


ANSWER #13 of 20

if you put pictures up of yourself, we would all tell you that your beautiful. and don't change your self with makeup and cool clothes. just stay the way you are and your first kiss and maybe a boyfriend will come around. and when that happens, make sure he likes who you are inside, not just outside.


ANSWER #14 of 20

Hi ! I can tell you that in some point I feel the same way, too. But I don't care just because I know and I can assure you that you haven't met right people. There are so many people who haven't elementary rules of politeness. But I think that someday, nevertheless, you will meet the right boy/man and you'll be sincerely happy because you'll know him... Be yourself ! Nicolina


ANSWER #15 of 20

i think it's important to look at the good points, dear.
you are beautiful in your own way, everyone is, and you shouldn't let anyone get you to forget that. there are probably plenty of strengths that you have that others don't, so cherish those things.
but anyways, i think that if you want to take a jab at having a healthier lifestyle, then go for it. exercise isn't so bad, and it's good to stay in shape, too. i also don't think it's true that guys like just the athletic girls, either. there are plenty of women out there who are seen for their confidence and personality; looks aren't everything.
remember that true beauty is only skin deep.
first kisses are special. i'm sure that if you wanted a first kiss, you would want it from someone who loves you, right? so just be who you are, and you won't have any grief over that. xD and i'm sure that eventually someone will come along.
good luck to you, hun. All the best.


ANSWER #16 of 20

Hello! =]
Your probably really pretty...just cant see it yourself because all you focus on are the bad points about yourself...
You should try and focus on all the good things about yourself... and then think about people with worse looks than yourself...
And there are bound to be some!
Hope this helps your confidence a bit =] x


ANSWER #17 of 20

Hi ! I can tell you that in some point I feel the same way, too. But I don't care just because I know and I can assure you that you haven't met right people. There are so many people who haven't elementary rules of politeness. But I think that someday, nevertheless, you will meet the right boy/man and you'll be sincerely happy because you'll know him... Be yourself ! Nicolina


ANSWER #18 of 20

It's a pretty cruel world right? I'm in year 9 [9th grade] and I first kissed in 7th. I have never excercised a day in my life, yet I'm 5foot10 and size 0/2, fiine my boobs are only middle of the road, but I'm not athletic at all. I know in reality you should be the one getting all the guys, and all that, buut, I dunno. Everybody's georgeous in my eyes, which is why I get along so well. I don't judge people by anything that's on the outside. I bet you're a great and nice person =)


ANSWER #19 of 20

hey girl
Im 13 and I never had my first kiss yet. I have my frands tell me im beautiful every day and I think im dang ugly! but its not worth it it really isnt he might cheat on you and think about this... would your husband marry you 4 how many people you kissed in your life 99.9 per. say no! and this girl I no her boyfriend hates that she had her 1st kiss at 13-14 and he had his like his last yr of hs. dont just have your 1st kiss just 2 have one thats dumb! boys in my class like me but they would never admit 2 it... just wait till your in collage they'll luv ya


ANSWER #20 of 20

Im eighteen, I have not gotten my first kiss yet. Boys dont like me because Im short (born premature) so boys do look at the outside mostly. Besides, you dont want to get a boy who is in your grade, there so immature. If you want a guy, go for a older one, who might want a relationship and not just anything sex related as boys around your age would.


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