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I want a baby.. I no ide be a good mum, and I could look after it... && my family could afford what a baby needs
Should I have one?
no. I wanted a baby when I was young too. Something is missing in your life that makes you want that. I had it bad growing up, I felt very unloved by my dad and my mom didn't pay attention to me enough. I wanted a baby. It was like trying to start a new life and leaving bad memories behind. But it isn't a good idea. You need to evaluate why you want a baby. If it is to meet your need to feel loved, I suggest not to. If you bring in a baby to meet your personal satisfaction you will eventually cause damage to a poor child. Babies are very demanding and selfish naturally. You wont get the kinda love you need from a child. Accomplish all you can in life find the right person and live life free right now. Things may seem lonely at times, but trust me it gets lonlier when you are by yourself with a baby. Please live your life to the fullest first, if yu have one now, you WILL have regrets. Good things in life are worth waiting for. Take my advice, good luck to you.
Well coming from someone who had a child at a young age I'd tell you that based on what you wrote that you have no idea of what you would be in for. I have no doubt that it is possible for people who get pregnant at young ages to live productive lives and be good parents but after reading what you wrote it really raises the flag of if your really understand what your saying. Just because your family would be able to afford a child, is that really a burden you'd want to throw on them just because you think it would be that easy? The decision of having a child shouldn't be based soley on what you wrote so if I still haven't convinced you that this is a bad idea I'd strongly recommend for you find a teenage mother and walk a day along with her & see if you feel the same.
Your family could afford what a baby needs? You are WAY over your head, honestly what are you thinking. You want to go get knocked up just to have a baby because they are cute and get your family to buy everything your baby needs. If I was your family, I'd be really ashamed of you right now. You shouldnt use people like that...
um no cause when you said my realitives can afford what your baby needs isnt good cause as a mom you should supply supplies for your baby!! and if what you meant my that was I have no money my realitives can afford the stuff for my baby then heck no!! why would you want a baby that you cant pay 4???
OMG OMG OMG OMG GROAN
Just get a houseplant and see how long it lives.
Then we'll move you to goldfish.
If you can make it to amphibians, we'll consider getting you a puppy.
Seriously why am I wasting my energy on this?
Our answers to your previous question along these lines haven't changed - I just suggest you go back and look at what we wrote last time. My suggestion remains - get into babysitting if you love babies.
I agr33 wid st3phani3 sh3 is so rit3... why do you want a baby? and your family should not b3 supporting that baby!!! you should you wana g3t knock3d up th3n you tak3 car3 of it
LOLOLOL...OMG I can't breath.
TexasKimmie: I've always assumed attractive people made amazing parents AND had green thumbs.
Go figure.
Thats not even a good frame of reference. I have children but I can still kill a house plant. :)
no no no hell no a baby will not solve your problem..
Well, a few plants have survived me. :)
Based on your age, I'd say NO.
how old are you?
