I want a baby

hi im 18 and I want a baby so bad bt don’t worry in nt trying to get pregnant until im shoor ov whant I want to do im very mature for my age have bn in the same job for 2 years have my own house with a boyfriend who I have bn with for 4 years and we have descused if I did get pregnt by chance we would keep it but I want a baby so bad I was thinking about commin off the pill without him nowing do you think this would be a bad move as he might nt trust me after this but I know he doesent plan on havin a planed baby at the moment how do I aproch this ? HELP!!!

Answer #1

A Puppy is the best thing you could get right now! Tricking your boyfriend may cost you your relationship! The fact that you are thinking of doing that shows you are not mature enough to handle a baby! It takes 2 to make and raise a Baby. If your boyfriend ends up wanting a Baby get married first! if not… all he has to do is refuse a maternity test and you are stuck with a baby to raise on your own, no career cause you were to pregnant to focus in school, prob. needing government help cause you wont be able to feed even yourself! And trust me, I dont need to be paying my taxes to feed immature children who trick there boyfriend into getting them PregO!

Answer #2

DO NOT HAVRE A KID AT 18.. Never.. It will be a mistake.. a baby is not like a doll where you can remove the batteries and put in the cuboard when you have had enough.. It will change your life.. The friends that always invite you over will stop inviting you.. You are young.. first enjoy life.. party.. Travel.. study.. DO NOT HAVE A KID.. You will regret it and the kid will live the the consequencies of your actions.. You not even married.. If you want to look after something and have peternal urges.. get a puppy.. if you still love the puppy the same way as the day you got it and you have not asked someone else to feed it or clean up its dog Mess.. (5 years atleast) thern have a kid.. untill then.. stay a non mom

Answer #3

if your boyfriend doesn’t want a baby then don’t trick him into having one with you. that’s so incredibly selfish. it takes 2 people to have a baby and if he doesn’t want one right now then too bad get over it, damn. you guys are still really young anyway.. there’s no rush. if you want a baby so badly then you can wait until you are both ready.

tricking him into a baby is just going to make you look like a dumbass.

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