Should I have my tubes tied at 21?

I dont know if it was accidental pregnancies that you have had, but its rather screwed up that you even tried to have another kid after 1 miscarriage, its your fault that you killed four children, in my opinion, you should have used some sort of birth control to begin with and take responsibility for yourself. I want my tubes tied too, and I am 21 and have never tried to get pregnant or want kids.

my mum has a friend, shes has a son however since then shes had 2 misscarriages both have torn her apart. the best thing to do is go to your doctors and find out exactly why you are havin so many misscarriages then sort out what you want to do from there. but I would suggest that you dont give up hope on having a baby. As your 21 I believe that you are too young as their is still a chance you would have a baby. hope this helps x if you want to chat im always here x

heeey I think you should wait a lil longer…you dont want to regret anything..try askin your doc for other options or help…there can still be a chance that you can be able to have one, I know its really tough, but doint give up!

I’d talk to a fertility specialist; there are drugs that may help you carry your baby to term. I knew a woman who had 3 miscarriages and thought she’d never be able to have kids then she had 9. Seems to me having your tubes tied is a little premature at 21. When I was in my 20’s I felt sure that I never wanted kids and considered getting a vasectomy. 20 years later I changed my mind.

No I think that you should wait to you are around your late 30’s becuse you may just have that special baby. and you need to see a doctor because you might not be doing something right.

ok, so first off, “chloroxcrissy “ had no business leavin a comment like that.

I think it Could be a good choice either way. first off though, you need to know why you are having the miscarriages. that would probably help a lot in the decision. because you are stiil young, you may decide to try to have a child.

I’d get several Dr’s opinions before that step - you’ll be in my thoughts and prayers…Take good care !!

I think you should consult several different doctors to find out why your having multiple miscarriages. Be sure to get some counseling or some kind of support. It probably just isn’t time yet for you to bring childern into this world. Please wait and use some sort of birth control in the meantime. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Being that you have no children and you’re 21 it will be really hard for you to find a doctor that will actually go through with the procedure.

You should talk to your doctor about other options. Fertility treatments if you want children and birth control if you don’t. Birth control is a more likely option than getting your tubes tied because it is reversible.

I wish you the best of luck.