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What if I'm scared to have these feelings?

I’m 14 and I have been having wierd feelings. I don’t have a boyfreind and don’t want one, but I’ve been having some feelings like I want to have a “personal”, I mean realy “personal”. I’m a vergane and plan to be until I’m married but there are so may girls who give in before their wedding day. it scares me that I’m already having these feeling and I want to know what I should do about it. could you please help me? p.s. please don’t say talk to your parents, I can’t imagine talking to someone I know and will have to see day after day.

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Answer #1

I agree with Stephanief987, stick with what YOU believe in. With what YOU think is right. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks or does.It only matters what YOU think and do.

Answer #2

Don’t be worried, believe in yourself! Stand up for what you believe in! Every girl goes through this, its one of those things that you know a lot of other people are doing, so you have thoughts about doing it aswell. Just don’t loose hope whatever you do. Say everyone was doing drugs… would you do it? If everyone was drinking underage… would you do it? If everyone is having sex… will you do it? I hope not, I hope you stick with what you believe in no matter what.

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