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How to prove that I didn't cheat just because I didn't bleed?

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So.. im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. weve been together fro 10 months and jus finally got to the point were we were done playing around. so we decided to have sex. this past weekend and it didnt go so well. people say if your a virgin your supsoed to bleed the first time you have sex. other wise known as popping your cherry. well we were having sex for 7 or 8 mins I told him to pull out casue it was hurting, he looked at me was was like are you sure uve not cheated on me. well im positive I've not cheated on him, but when his mom and sister got home he asked them the 1st time they had sex. if the poped and bleed. well they said yes.and he thinks I cheated on him. I would take 100000 million lie dectotecter test to prove himm im right. but I was raped when I was 9 and never got checked out. altho my sister did. and she has problems today because what happened to her when she was raped. Its really hard to cope with him when he says he belives me but when I say I love you he says ditio like w/e and it really hurts my feekling he dont belive me. I neeep help??? can anyone give me the right advise. on where and what I should do or say. im suposed to go see a gynecologiest soon