I need a blessing from god to move in?

I agree that the choice is YOURS and not the mothers…reguardless but I would suggest doing some research on living together before marriage.

Here are a few links that might help with some facts…you just dont want to be lead by emotion alone, especially when you really love someone!

http://www.leaderu.com/critical/cohabitation-socio.html

http://archives.cnn.com/2002/US/07/24/cdc.marriagereport/index.html

Best of luck!

I think you actually have to live with someone before knowing if you can marry them.

I live with my bf and he can get REALLY annoying and anal retentive sometimes. But I still love him, of course :)

Marriage is being together as one… but if you two completely clash then it’s going to be like trying to mix oil and water!

Well the thing is I understand where his mother is coming from.. taking time and all. But my mom told me that his mother wouldn’t allow it because of her religion. That really bothers me bcause I have been baptised Catholic.. but I don’t fallow any religion. And I don’t appriciate someone trying to make my decisions based on a religion. The other night I was under the covers with my BF (fully clothed) And she doesn’t even allow that. Plus my BF doesn’t even follow his mothers religion… so I have no clue what to do. My mother says that my BF should talk to his Mom. I just find that religion causes more problems then there needs to be. So I don’t know? lol Help some more please. Thanks

I really do agree with bubux007 and skiashimmer alot. I know you really love your boyfriend alot. What his mother said was the right thing. I do go to church which I am a bapisit. I do believe in god. God does have a purpose in all of our lives and let us deal with our own choices. Just think long and hard for what his mom said. Maybe then you and her might agree. If not I am sorry. Just have another talk with her and see what she says. Ya’ll might agree with some things. But not alot. Let her come around and see what happens. Just do what is right. Your boyfriend’s mother is right about the marriage thing that you and your boyfriend should be thinking about. But you really do need to understand her and where she is coming from. I hope this will help alot.

You two have to do what you want regardless of what his mother says. I moved in with my bf and I’ve gotten alot of scorn from it. My twin sis who is married and very baptist refuses to stay over because she doesn’t want to be in a “house of sin”. I think all of that is nonesense!

I say do what you want to do because they are family and have to love you anyways, and if they don’t then they have to live with that.

“sikashimmer” is absolutely right. You are at the best age to try out the life. God, if wants, will bless your love if when it is deep enough.