Should I let him go back to his baby momma?

hi there I am 19 years old and I am kinda seeing this guy but he has was dating this girl before me and she went to jail then thats when he asked me to be his girl so I said yeah and when we were dating it was going good and at the same time I felt like I wasn’t really attracted to him so we dated for like 2 months then one day he told me over the phone he didn’t want to date and I was like oh ok I felt good but at the same time I felt like I was hurt and he told me he wanted to work things out with his chick that was in jail and she was pregnant but I already knew that she was but anyways we stayed friends and one day we were drinking we ended hooking up. the next day his chick came over and seen the mark on my neck so she got mad at both of us but we denied that we fooleda round and our homeboys were like get lost to her told her to leave and after she left they told me they rather prefer me to be his girl so anyways she’s back in jail again and we were fooling around but I want to be more than just to peoples that fool around I want to be his girl I miss him and what should I do about that can you get back and give me advice on this situation? should I tell him or should I let him go back to his babymama cause he sadi he likes me more than his babymama but he just gets confusing at times and I want him so bad3

Answer #1

If you want to be more than just someone to fool around with, then hun, you need to start respecting yourself, and stop making yourself available to some guy who doesnt even know what he wants. Giving in to him sexually will NOT make him commit to you, or even like you.

Answer #2

Your letting it be that way. If you don’t want to just ‘fool around’ then why do you? Its not like your stopping it from being the way it is. You let him walk all over you.

Answer #3

Well I would just tell him stright up like I really like u and I really want 2 be ur gurl. That’s y I still fulled around with u 2 give u a hint that I still wanted 2 be urs and if he doesn’t want 2 then I would just brake it of. Its not worth getting ur feeling hurt.

Answer #4

ok, well I didnt really feel like reading that WHOLE THING. because I only read long paragraphs when neccesary, anyhow. from the looks of the question, I think that if you dont feel a bond, beyond a sexual bond with this guy, you should let him go back to his baby momma, and plus, she is always going to be there, because they ARE linked by a child, so that makes everything diff. anyhow. good luck.

Answer #5

just tell him you never no he might want you to be his girl

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