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How can I regain my boyfriend's trust?

Me and my boyfriend went to this party last night. Everything was fine the first few hours. Me and him drink but we’re not like obsessed with it. And last night we told each other that we weren’t going to get drunk. Well when I first got there my friend poured me a shot. And then before I knew it I was like..plastered. me and my boyfriend got in a fight and just like every other girl, I’m an EMOTIONAL WRECK when I’m drunk. I was bawling my eyes out in front of all of his friends and embarrassing him for no reason at all. he doesn’t trust me any more. and I told him that I am going to quit drinking after last night. but I feel like he’s still so mad at me. I don’t know what to do to get his trust back. I just wish I could go back and change everything. I don’t even remember half the stuff I did. please help. I love my boyfriend more than anything. we’ve been dating for 8 months and hes so important to me and I don’t know what id do if I lost him

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Answer #1

I have the same problem but not with alcohol… I did mess up and I lost all his trust. I love him more then anything and id die if he left me but this is what I did: I asked to talk it out face to face (this is good because he would be more tempted to forgive you) I apologized to him and looked him in the eye and told him that I love him and for him to give me one more chance I cried in front of him and that helped way more… try it it worked for me… just make sure to get on his friends sides because his friends are the people he goes to advise to first..

Answer #2

Ok you went back on a promise and embarrassed him, now if he is willing to give you another chance all you have to do is give it time to prove to him that you are keeping your promises and not drinking. After a few parties and so on when you keep your promise and he sees your effort he will begin to trust you again but its going to take alot of patience and time.

Answer #3

You just had one shot and nothing else? Ok someone obviously put something in your drink or you just can’t hold your liquor. Explain to him how you feel and let him know you love him and ask him what it takes for you to gain his trust back. Once you lost trust it’s hard to gain again. Just be careful about what you say. Good luck.

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