Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Love & Relationships Questions

I have a crush on a guy who might possible be taken- what do I do?

So there’s this guy. That I like. A LOT. And is possible taken by a sort of friend of mine. What the hell do I do?

And don’t tell me to try to forget about him. I don’t get crushes. It’s a very rare occurance when I do. The last time I had a big crush, was almost six years ago, so it’s been a long time since I’ve had this feeling. I mean, I feel so happy around him and when I think about him, and I don’t want to just give up on that, especially since I don’t know when I’ll have that again.

So please, give me some advice. Thanks!

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

You dont care if he has a girlfriend thats what I say ta myself

but you need to tell him that you like him a lot and wanted to know if you guys could hang out 1 weekend and it wod be as friends nt a date or notthing

Answer #2

How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot, and some girl was trying to get on your boyfriend? I’m sure you wouldnt like it, so maybe instead of just thinking about yourself, think about the people you would be hurting. Just because you get a crush doesnt mean you have to act on it, especially if the timing isnt right, and just because you havent had a crush in 6 years, doesnt mean it will be another 6 years before it happens again. When two people are meant to be together, it will happen naturally, not forced!

Answer #3

If he’s taken then honestly you need to be the bigger person and back off. Sorry if that’s not what you want to hear, but being a homewrecker and stealing someone’s boyfriend just makes you look slutty. Also, you said that he’s with a friend of yours. You would really steal a guy from a friend? Obviously you aren’t that great of a friend then. You can and will find someone else, your just not trying to .

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Possible

Marriage Agency, Matchmaking Services, Bridal Services

Advisor

Asianbrides

Mail Order Brides, Asian Dating, Relationships

Advisor

Be a Blushing Bride

Wedding Services, Online Dating, International Relationships

Advisor

lovefindsitsway

Relationships, Self-improvement, Lifestyle

Advisor

lovebackexpert.com