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I feel sad...please help!

Hello everyone, I feel really sad at the moment. It’s because I do not have a boyfriend. I know it sounds silly, but I feel kind of empty inside. I want someone to love me because they can and want to, instead of family love or something like that. I don’t feel very happy, and I keep on having negative thoughts such as “Am I pretty enough?” and “Should I lose weight?” or “Am I not being feminine enough?”. According to the scales I’m a healthy weight, so I don’t think I have anything to worry about on that front, but I often feel like a big sore thumb sticking out whilst everyone else is slim and pretty. Perhaps I’m too boyish? Should I throw myself onto boys more? Help please!

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Don’t throw yourself onto boys, that can put them off. If you like someone, you can discreetly hint to them that you like them; perhaps by laughing at their jokes of helping them/ comforting them if their upset. I know it might seem hard but the best thing to do is wait until the right boy comes along otherwise if you just go for any boy, it’s very likely to end in heartbreak. It’s not that your “not pretty” or “not feminine enough”, boys go for different types of girls, there’s definitely boys who would go for you. You may not know any at the moment, or maybe there is someone who likes you but just doesn’t want to show it ( you never know) but I’m sure a boy will come along. you just have to be patient. Good luck :)

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