I feel ashamed

Okay last April I got saved. During the rest of the summer and this year I followed Christianity very well. I mean I talked to God believed and had faith. But for the past month or two I have been backsliding and having second thoughts about what I really trusted. What do I do?

Answer #1

Start praying…I guess…because if God answers…you know he is real and you can trust that :D

Answer #2

pray don’t loose faith because you will regret it

Answer #3

@ silverwings: Well said! I totally agree with you!

Answer #4

I’m strong God believer but I still think what if he not real but I trust and pray to him a lot

Answer #5

its all about yu belive in

Answer #6

A little extra to read while you are at it:

http://www.godisimaginary.com/

Answer #8

…jane_of_the_jungle, are you going to take my challenge or not…?…CAN you even provide answers for the questions I posed? Or maybe you CAN’T…?

Lol no didnt answer your Q’s yet, because I wasnt on the site yet, since youve asked, so dont pop the champagne yet !!!

@ jane_of_the_jungle: Soo…let me ask you, if I may…are you an atheist? Wont say im a atheist, would call myself a Humanist, since Atheist could fall in the same class than Satan and hell for you guys lol

Just curious, but what do you believe? I believe in the strenth of my own body and other living things around us, I also know that religions made humans dependant on a ‘SUMTHING” - to be there to help them making decisions/be there when they are in need/be there when they did something awful to pray for their sins and let them only feel better because they did something stupid like that !!! Where when you dont believe in any religions, you have to be only RESPONSIBLE this time, for your OWN stupid moved!!! Point is: Dont rely on someone to help you out of bad situations, when only YOU are responsible for this!!!

I find it to be a little disgenerous that you didn’t state your beliefs. Disgenerous or are you being a bit nosy here???

Where did life come from? You know as well as I do, that Evolusion is not a fairy tale here!!! If you dont want to see it, youre as delusional as all who doesnt WANNA know it!!!

Also, do you belive that there is a God at all, or that this universe s just one giant anarchy? I dont believe there is any gods at all. If you believe there is a Budha, and all of the following • 1 Abrahamic religions • 2 Indian religions • 3 Iranian religions • 4 East Asian religions • 5 African diasporic religions • 6 Indigenous traditional religions • 7 Historical polytheism • 8 Neopaganism • 9 New Age, Esotericism, Mysticism • 10 New religious movements • 11 Fictional religions

and that all of their gods exists, then we can talk again!!!

Do you believe in evolution? * Yap answered that, NO ONE AS BLIND, AS THE ONE WHO DOESNT WANNA SEE!!!

How would life had started if the was ZERO living matter to begin with, if there was NO DIVINE INTERVENTION? Obviously you didnt go into the science of Evolution yet, otherwise you would ask such stupid question, or did you check it out an just not UNDERSTAND it???

Do you believe in Heaven and Hell? No there is no such thing, only if you wish to live in a fairy tale! Heaven was created for a pay off for being good and hell created to make people fear for their bad acts to have consequences!!!

Or do you think there’s just oblivion? Please do check out, when the different bible books were written: In times when people thought Thunder, hail, tornado’s etc was send to punish them earthlings, it came out of the sky! So the normal thing for all religions was to conclude that there was a god up there. (read religions origins on wikibooks, if youre not scared! **

Lastly, if you believe in Heaven and/ or Hell, how is it decided where people end up when they die? Ok already stated that there is no such thing, if you die you end up 6ft under, sorry to say, but that is a fact and the sooner you guys eyes open the easier it would be to accept !!!

Do you think all the “good” people got to Heaven, and the “bad” people go to Hell? Even “good” people have sinned, at least once. Even if it was just the thought of something. With God, that puts us in the same boat as the “bad” people. “Nobody’s perfect,” as the saying goes. If Heaven is supposed to be a perfect place, then how would IMPERFECT beings like us go there, without help frome He who IS PERFECT? Do you believe that you can get into Heaven all by your own strength? Do you even understand youre own disorganised reasoning??? I bet if you ask a Budhist, Judaist, or Hinduist he would have the same feeling about his god!

Also, the only way Christianity’s a “crutch”, As you so bluntly accused it of being, are on the points of having a relationship with God, and entering Heaven. Please, answer the questions I included. Maybe if you are a bit interested to do some research yourself, you would also be able to open your eyes, that is: IF YOUR NOT TO SCARED TO SEE THE TRUTH AND NOT WILLING TO LIVE WITHOUT THE BACKUP OF HEAVEN AND HELL HANGING LIKE A SWORD OVER YOUR HEAD! Lets see how much you believe in your ways, are you brave enough to read info and observe it realistic and still believe in a god???

Perhaps you’ll notice all the loose ends in an atheistic lifestyle? Feel free to FM me or comment on my page. There is no loose ends being a non believer in fairy tales, I’ve never feel as free as I am feeling now after 38 years, but you will never know the feeling if you are not prepared to look into this thing yourself!

I really dont like to tackle xtians alone on religion, because if you wiki religions yourself, you would see there is a hell of a list of religions. BUT however if you would like me to send you a list of bible contraversions (and there is a hell of a list) I would kindly do it for you, so you to can make an informed decision!!

Friendly greetings :-)

Answer #9

…jane_of_the_jungle, are you going to take my challenge or not…?…CAN you even provide answers for the questions I posed? Or maybe you CAN’T…?

Answer #10

When you try getting closer to God there is a larger struggle in you than anticipated. You need to pray for strength and wisdom to do right.

Answer #11

Your putting to much faith into something else and relying on this something far too much to sort you out, put this faith in yourself where it belongs because only you have the power to control your destiny, not some “powerful being” :)

Answer #12

@ jane_of_the_jungle: Soo…let me ask you, if I may…are you an atheist? Just curious, but what do you believe? I find it to be a little disgenerous that you didn’t state your beliefs. Where did life come from? Also, do you belive that there is a God at all, or that this universe s just one giant anarchy? Do you believe in evolution? How would life had started if the was ZERO living matter to begin with, if there was NO DIVINE INTERVENTION? Do you believe in Heaven and Hell? Or do you think there’s just oblivion? Lastly, if you believe in Heaven and/ or Hell, how is it decided where people end up when they die? Do you think all the “good” people got to Heaven, and the “bad” people go to Hell? Even “good” people have sinned, at least once. Even if it was just the thought of something. With God, that puts us in the same boat as the “bad” people. “Nobody’s perfect,” as the saying goes. If Heaven is supposed to be a perfect place, then how would IMPERFECT beings like us go there, without help frome He who IS PERFECT? Do you believe that you can get into Heaven all by your own strength? Also, the only way Christianity’s a “crutch”, As you so bluntly accused it of being, are on the points of having a relationship with God, and entering Heaven. Please, answer the questions I included. Perhaps you’ll notice all the loose ends in an atheistic lifestyle? Feel free to FM me or comment on my page.

Answer #13

Ok…wow…so many differing opinions. First of all, I’m glad you’ve come to trust in Jesus. As ameone here already said, there will be struggles in your faith. You WILL go thru periods of trials. (Just came out of one, myself, actually) Also, think of this: the Gospel in a nutshell: God is Holy. We’re not. God HATES sin, enough to send someone to hell for any sins they commited. Problem is, We’ve ALL sinned, and therefore all hell- bound from birth…EXCEPT, out of His love, He came in the form of man, and took OUR punishment away, so that we may be with God in heaven one day. All we need to do is believe in Him and accept Him as our Savior. God looks on Him, and pardons us. FM me for verses to read from your Bible. And also, it’s NATURAL to backslide! It’s not good, but everyone does! That’s because we’re not perfect. GOD IS PERFECT, however. He will lead you back to Him, you just have to look.

Answer #14

Ladybug, dont feel ashamed at your feelings, a lot of us went through those, grew up in xtian homes, in church every Sunday etc, me to. If only I thought of all this more realistic years and years ago, things would have been much easier. It is true what reo0088 said:

Your putting to much faith into something else and relying on this something far too much to sort you out, put this faith in yourself where it belongs because only you have the power to control your destiny, not some “powerful being”

Have faith in your own strenghts as a human being, sadly this is what all religious people lack of or loose! If they only know what they are really capable of they would be amazed and you to! If you ever get the chance or if you didnt already, please watch the movie “the secret” and dont be afraid it is not a evil or satanic movie, it is only a eye opener, it shows you also that some people need religion or something to cling to, muslems, xtians etc. If you want to pm me and I would give you a link where you can watch movie clips to explain much more. After all, Facts is Facts and Fairy tales are Fairy tales and superstition also!

Answer #15

Do you care about whether or not you are right, or simply whether or not it feels right?

If you want o be sure you are actually right, you have to test your beliefs. Do they make sense? Do they stand up to criticism? If not, then abandon them.

That’s how reason works, and it makes little sense for a god to create a rational world and then demand blind belief by faith rather than by reason.

Answer #16

Faith is under attack as never before, and you live in a generation that delight in tearing down every shred of faith that can be found.If you truly desire to find and follow Christ, you need to be among other believers, not on a board full of Atheists, and Agnostics. All you will do here is loose what little faith you have left.

You are at a crossroads, one that will have eternal consequences, the decision that you make, matters greatly. The choice is yours, Christ has paid the price for your salvation, but, it is up to you, what you do with it. He will not make you serve him, nor does he want you to, unless you truly desire to.

I personally wouldn’t trade my salvation for anything on this earth, it is that important to me.

My suggestion is to find a spirit filled church and ask them to pray with you, concerning this very important decision. Also, to get into the bible, and seek God, thru his word, and his spirit, this is spiritual warfare coming against you, and it is designed to steal your faith, if that faith is valuable to you, you will have to fight for it.

Jesus gave you the gift of life, what you do with that life, is your gift back to him.

I will be praying for you.

Answer #17

Faith is under attack as never before, and you live in a generation that delight in tearing down every shred of faith that can be found.If you truly desire to find and follow Christ, you need to be among other believers, not on a board full of Atheists, and Agnostics. All you will do here is loose what little faith you have left.

Silverwings I can understand that this is your way of thinking, I am NOT in Ladybugs generation, neither in yours, but very close. Please do yourself the favour and visit ex-christian forum site and see how many women of MY age only realise at the age 35+ that there is simply nothing out there, this not only xtians but all other religions. The sooner people can get over this idee that there is someone out there to protect them when they do something out of line and be “protected” the better this world would be! You are the only one responsible for your wrong doings, theres no back up!!! Point is: Dont do bad stuff in the first place, then you wont feel guilty and build your life by being a nice human being!!

Answer #18

Oh yeh BTW “Silent Storm” You still thing god created Eve with Adams Rib??? Carefull what you say hey, cause check all medical evidence first, both male and female has exactly the same rib count, ooohhh how come??? Could it be that the one who told the story, had no clue what so eva about the human body, because they were so uninformed at that times they didnt even know where a human heart or brain was or what exactly there was in a human body!!! Fact Noah didnt know there was Lions in Africa or Polar bears up North, he just lived in his 300km radius and that was all he really knew! How do I know that??? Because Columbus showed us that only a few hundred years ago!!!

Answer #19

@ jane_of_the_jungle: first, sorry I’ve not been on for awhile. Second, a lot of those links sound familiar…I think I had to go to that site as part of some class…I don’t remember which one…it was like freshman year. Maybe english?? I don’t even need to try out any of the stuff yo’ve said, tho…In my years of highschool, a lot of people I know are atheist/ humanist/ whatever (basically the same thing!) I’ve already heard all that crap about evolution ( they cram it in our ears in biology, how can I NOT know about it?) , and why they don’t believe in God, etc. Really, tho…what would “free” mean to someone with no god? They can never give me anything but wishy- washy CRAP. Perhaps you’ll do better? Also, where does ethics come from if there is no god, if people can control themselves? What are the standards of judgement??? I’ll tell you. The standard of judgement is…the individual. Because, if it were the law, then why do you see ( or rather, why do I see) a lot of atheists BREAK the law? Isn’t that WRONG? They just do things b/c they want to; like using fake IDs or stealing their parent’s stash to sneak drinks, sneaking smokes when under 18, etc. If the individual wants to do something, then the individual usually DOES it. If you’re gonna call me out on being wrong, lemme tell you something. First, I don’t hang with them. They HATE me, call me a “goody- two- shoes”, “prude”, etc. Second, yeah, I’m not trying to slander them. I was just providing data, lol. But seriously, can we quit arguing on this one? We’re gonna be at this all year otherwise…

Answer #20

God is real and alive, dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Also I suggest you read the case for faith by lee strobel, the book helped me so much. another thing is I know my faith stand firm on a rock, read psalm 22 verse 1:1 My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from the words of my groaning? psalms 22: 6 But I am a worm and not a man,

   scorned by men and despised by the people. 

7 All who see me mock me;

   they hurl insults, shaking their heads: 

8 “He trusts in the LORD;

   let the LORD rescue him. 
   Let him deliver him, 
   since he delights in him." 

these ar some prophesis of jesus, why? read matthew 27:45 the first thing you read is jesus crying out my God my God why have you forsaken me? everyone there thinks he’s asking elijah a prophet from long ago and the people say let the LORD rescue him.

   Let him deliver him, 
   since he delights in him. psalms was written a couple thousand years before jesus was alive, jesus comlpeted every prophesy about him, the chances he would do even 8 are 1 in 100 trillion, and I did not make that up either
Answer #21

Silent Storm and Silver Wings,

http://exreligious.com/exchristian.html

copy and paste this in your browser, scroll down to the video clip and watch it, if you are not to scared to see the truth. Also feel free to watch some of the other clips and read the pages.

Take care

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