I wna contact my dad But he is prison 4 sexual abuse , and I wna find out my family, I emailed the prison So just wait 4 em to reply Do you think I shd contact him and ask him like abt my family[aka his sde of family],
P.s I was one of the kids he abused too
why the hell would you want to talk to some one that abused you theres other ways to find out about your other family members with out talking to him I dont know why you would even consider him you want to put as much distance between you guys as possible before he gets out.
it is ok for you to know who they are and to know things about them... especially if some medical thing comes up and you need to know the history.
I wouldn't suggest going to see them though. or at least have someone with you if you do.
if your really intrested and if no one else will tell you then I think you should.
Speak to someone who is in his family but not him
Tough decision, but only you can make it.