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I cant stand my mom.

My mom yells at me all the time. She complains about how I dont help around the house and that I should help clean more often. The truth is that I clean the same amount as she does. She comes home from work and reads, eats dinner, and goes to bed. Why is she yelling at me, when she does it too?

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Answer #1

My mother does the same thing sometimes. She always has this look on her face like ‘You do nothing around the House”. But I understand that sometimes I’m not helpful and maybe need to help a little more. I always try to clean our Rabbit’s Cage, Vacuum, and unload the Dishwasher.

You could walk up to your mom and ask if she needs anything done. Or if your mom’s like my mom and denies any problem I’ll just look for something to do around the House. If not..talk to her. Tell her how you feel.

Your mom probably just wants you to be responsible and helpful, because someday all that work will be in your hands. I’m sure you’ll want your kids -If you ever have any- to do some work to show you that they appreciate the Roof over their heads and the food brought to the table.

I don’t know how much you actually help around the House, but try to help out a little more, and eventually your mom will realize that you are being helpful and making a commitment to help her.

Good Luck. ~Emmalism

Answer #2

My mother sucks too my mom is a drug addict that yells about anything I wish I had my own house just to get away from her…She dont work cause of her drug problem she cant drive cause she crashes… I gotta do everything for her clean… drive her around everything she is a complete b*tch!!! shes bi polar so if I even try talking to her about how she is she will forget and still treat me the same. I hate her and I cant wait until she dies! I know how you feel and you really cant do anything about it.. just suffer..

Answer #3

Well hun. I think all moms yell at their kids at same point. She works hard all day for you & your family so you can live good and have the things you want. Shes tired when she comes home from work and doesn’t want to worry about cleaning on top of it. Maybe if you just cleaned up a little more for her, it wouldn’t hurt. =)

I know that nobody likes to clean but your mom would really appreciate it and you for helping her out.

Answer #4

I am in the same boat as you I do the laundry, dust, dishes, vacuum, give my sister a bath(3yrs), and get her dressed and put her to bed so I realy cant give you advice

sorry

Answer #5

Be glad that you have a mother cause some kids out here dont have a mother. But, if she keep gettin on your nerve SLAP her !!! That is just my advice you dont have to use it if you dont want to.. and my number is 313-915-9016 and my name is SHAVONTA

Answer #6

my mom does the same thing so I know how you feel. dont give her a reason to yell at you. do everything you can. clean everything up so when she comes home she cant say anything. that is what I do!

Answer #7

dont worry about her yeliing at you she only yells cause she cares about you worry when she stops yelling because that means she gave up on you

Answer #8

Wow now those are Strong words that I hope you don’t have to regret someday , Moms are moms and yelling is really just a release of tension on their part , have a open and honest talk with your mom and be the first to say ‘ I love you ‘

Answer #9

Don’t slap your mother because that will just cause more problems!

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