how do I deal with the death of someone I love too much?

“death is to be expected, but not always embraced” a friend once told me that. its going to be hard at first, and probably hard for a while after. but just think of all the things wrong with the world, and remember they wont have to deal with them anymore. they are in a better place. and if its upsetting you, the best thing to do, is talk to someone about it. just remember, think of the good times, and if you need/want to cry, go for it.

that same thing has happen to me as well my grandmother has pasted way 5 days ago I couldnt cry or shed a tear because I was in so much shock I even had to see her corpse at the manor care centre.

but its just best to face reality. who ever they are ..their in a much better place and if you love something its best to let them go im pretty sure they are thanking you in heaven on how much you loved them and they must want you to be happy

think of the happiest memories , dont dwell =]

and I wish for you to have all the happiness in the world too =D

Death is never easy I’ve lost a lot of people close to me recently I’ve lost my cousin who raised me from a young age and I still feel like crap when I see his picture. But the best thing you can do is just think of there life and celebrate the fact that they were around even if it was for a little while and be proud of their accomplishments and the effect they made on you and how much you love them.

I’m sorry and I have been through the same thing :( But they told me I had to just get over it. So I just remembered that, the person loved me very much and that I still loved them in my heart. Sorry girl