This is something you definitely should not worry about. I've been with women who were moms and women who are old ... and never found anybody too loose. This is really one of those things that popular culture worries about that really isn't a problem unless you're 80 and suffering from prolapse. I'm sure you're fine.
well i learnd that if you use a worm wash cloth sometimes it helps . but you have to leave it on for like 30 min. .try it and tell me if it works