I, personally, think that saying nothing and wishing you had hurts more. I'm not afraid to tell it like it is, but if I don't say something that I wish I had, I always wonder how things could be different, Besides, you can always apologize if you say something you regret.
Saying nothing, I hate having said nothing and having to look at the end result. Something that happened, that you could've prevented if you'd spoken up. Of course saying something is bad too, but I think there'll always be a chance of forgiveness..
Saying nothing and wishing you said something. I'm a spontaneous person, so I say stuff all the time that I wish I hadn't said and people have gotten used to it. The worst is when you're too scared to say something. I hate that
Ohh that's HORRIBLY hard to answer D; but to me, they're about equal. If that's not allowed(meaning i have to choose,lol) then I choose saying something and wishing you had not. cuz I'd rather not hurt someone.
Saying something I cannot take back. Once out, there is no way to erase it.
When I don't say something, there's always the possibility of saying it in the future.
i 100% agree =]