Hubby won't have sex

Hubby wont have sex with me for a really long time, but he loves me to death and I love him. Just isnt attracted to me in a sexual way. It’s been about 2 years. What do I do. I had a fling once during my marriage but I regret it, but it felt great to be wanted. Now I don’t know if I should leave.

Answer #1

Before you leave, try to get to the bottom of the no-sex thing. It’s not normal at all. Does he say he doesn’t find you sexually appealing? Did he at some point? Have you thought of going to a sex therapist (both of you)? Surely you owe your marriage this much investment - what if it can be fixed?

Answer #2

is it your hubby or you who wont have sex? if he wont then you try..

Answer #3

You need sex, so you may do 3 things. Have a secret sex partner. Have a not secret sex partner. Have a sex partner who do you while hubby is watching or is around. The last gives the most stable solution.

Answer #4

I have tried, and asked him to go to therapy, he wont go. He has told me a few times that he doesnt find me attractive in that way. He used to, everything started 2 years into our marriage. I don’t know what to think or do. I have tried so many things, its been so long and he still wont be intimate. I have asked him to go to the doctor but he says his fine. I was thinking he was cheating, but I dont truly believe that. Don’t know what to think or do. If I leave my parents will be heart broken and so will he. I left a while back for a month and he began drinking and gambling, train reck. Everything is ok now but im not happy living in a sexless marriage.

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