How to tell if she really loves you.

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for only 1 and a half months. She makes me feel really good about myself. All the time she says “I love you”, I cry, since nobody says that to me. All we need is each other to be happy, nothing else. But, how do I know its for real? Does she like me as much as I like her? I would like to save myself before I get crushed.

Answer #1

forget about those people that say one and a half months is too soon to say I love you. today is my boyfriend and mine’s one month anniversary, and we have been saying it for at least two weeks now. our families arent the greatest, but we have each other and thats all that matters. I remember getting a text fifth period that said baby I know I like you A LOT but I think I might love you…and I said I love you too and we have been saying it since :) time doesnt matter, just let her know that you love her. if the girls like me, she will love you back and know that you love her and thats all that ever matters. taking things too fast wasnt a problem for me, and I dont think it will be for her either. just not like trying to hook up with her right now. dont do fast like that, but saying I love you and kissing her is not too fast. its nice that youre not a player like other guys. be sweet to her, and even if shes not hooked on you yet, she will be. best of luck!

Answer #2

Well, I can tell you that nobody falls in love that quickly. They may think it is but it really isn’t.

Anything else, let me know. Good luck!

Answer #3

You said how no one says that they love you, mabey you just arnt used to hearing it and it is a new and extrodinary feeling. Its good to take things slow since it has only been a month and a half. So just wait a while and as long as things are going good then just keep hanging on…but if she doesnt love you as much as you love her then you cant really avoid the heart break and save yourself because you already feel so strongly for her.

Answer #4

Still though, the relationship is still in the early stages. You knew each other on a friendship level before hand, now this is a whole different level. It’s too soon to be saying I love you. I know it’s not what you want to hear though. I understand you care for her, but love is a strong word and you both dont seem to fully grasp what it means compeltely. Give it more time and don’t rush.

Answer #5

One and half months is awfully fast to say you love someone. That’s really not enough time to know everything about a person and to truly love them. I can tell you really care for her with how your talking, I just think that too many young people jump into saying the “L” word. It get’s thrown around so fast and so carelessly. Dont rush things.

Answer #6

If your telling her you love her all the time, I think that is a bad idea really. Be cool about it. be a man. and try not too take things too fast, I know its hard I’ve been there myself, and everytime I did they didnt last very long.

Answer #7

We havent been rushing on anything. We have been talking for years.

Answer #8

well I really would like to know myself if my girl really loves me we have been together for about two years but were only sixteen her mom hates me so its kinda hard to see her

Answer #9

Eh, I worded this wrong. Forget it.

Answer #10

awh thats so cute! how do you know she loves you as much as you love her? you never know. just do what your gut thinks is right.

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