How to revive a dead relationship?

I am a mature woman with grown up kids. I am widowed. Nearly 2 years ago I met a man and fell totally for him. We got on great but he always held back from me… we have never spent a full night together in 18 months. He is very shy about sex never having married and only ever having one partner. Ok, a few weeks ago we had a row, something small that blew up. He said that he never loved me, I was only ever sex to him. We haven’t spoken since. The odd text or e mail usually something irrelevant. Everyone tells me that he’s not for me and we never had a chance, but I am crushed. I would do anything for this man. Please please any advice at all guys and gals. thanks

Answer #1

You would do anything for this man? How are you not wanting to strangle this guy? I mean sure, to hear that you’re not loved by someone who you have invested so much time with is heartbreaking. But on top of that, saying that all you were was sex to him is like a big fat slap in the face. Talk about being kicked when you’re down.

Listen, what I’m about to say is gonna sound so cliche, but, seriously, it’s so true… You deserve so much better than that. You really do. You deserve to be treated with respect and love, and not felt like some sex toy. You deserve someone who cherishes every minute spent with you. I hope you eventually realize this, if you don’t already. It’s unfortunate, but not a lot of women do. Best of luck to you

Answer #2

Follow your heart.

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