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How to react with a guy with a weird sexual past?

Okay,so Lately I’ve been spending a lot of time at my aunts house.My cousin,who also lives there,has a friend named Michael.He seems like really decent guy,Hes polite,an seems respectable an whatnot.But My aunt told me to be careful around him,because of a sexual act he took part in.Im not going to say what it was,because you probably wouldnt believe me anyways.But lets just say its illegal,and pretty bad.No,he didnt rape anyone.

So anyways,He hasnt gone to jail for this,or anything,but he WAS caught.So,How do I react around him? Is it okay to talk with him and be cool? or should I stay away? Like I said,he seems ecent,we held a conversation before I found out any of this..an everything was cool,Youd never know he was uhh,weird.Hah.

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Answer #1

I really have no idea. I’d say its cool. but I don’t know what he did so it’s kinda hard ya know?

Answer #2

If he did something offensive/violent sexual act then it is better to stay away. Molesting powerless minors belongs to this class. If he did just unusual act, e,g. incest with consent, or similar, then you may behave 100% normally around him. If this “action” occupies your thinking then you may ask him about the question. And do not forget something: weird stories on a given person are not always true.

Answer #3

This is for you to decide, you know what happened and what he did. Just whatever you decide, just remember it’s not necesarily what someone did, but more what he or she learned from what had happened and if it changed them in a posotive or negative way. Anyone can make a mistake, after all we all are human I’m pretty sure and no one is perfect despite what we think. I know that I’ve personally made mistakes in my days, some being pretty dang bad as well, but I pride myself on knowing that I’d never make the same mistake twice, no matter how large and/ or how small is was.

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