How to move on after my husband was murdered?

Long story short, my husband was murdered in 2006 by an ex-girlfriend who is now serving 66 years in prison. A month after his passing I immediately started a relationship with a guy that reminded me nothing of my husband so I could deal with losing him. Well, I recently left him because he just wasn’t what I wanted. I just started talking to someone new but realize it’s only because I’m afraid to be alone. I’m searching for someone to replace the amazing feelings I had when I was with my husband. I miss him so much and doubt I’ll ever feel a love like that again. :0( I don’t want to end up with someone bad for me again. What should I do? How do I get over losing my husband?

Answer #1

You probably hurt more for the pure fact that he was taken from you before you were ready to let go. I am sure your husband would want you to move on and be happy, but I am also sure he wouldn’t want you to settle to avoid being alone. It’s these times in life that make us who we are and remind us how strong we can be. I think you should take some alone time for yourself and get to know you again, and know what you really want and once you think you can fully open your heart again (which is hard once it’s been broken) don’t necessarily search for love, just let it come to you. Look and act available and the right guy will come along, obviously God had a different path for you to take which is probably hard to understand know, but one day you will see everything happens for a reason. Hope this helped if you ever need anyone to talk to funmail me!

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