How to convince my mother

The same thing happen to me but I hade to go for anger mangment at frist I hate my parent for making me go. but in the end it actaully helps it not like the movies that all they say and how do you fell bout that ? I actaully enjoyed going well I dont go to thearpy no more but it sure help go threw obstacles!

well professional help isn’t necessarily a bad thing. I am not sure what the situation is… but why don’t you try like one session and if you do not like it you can go to your mom and tell her that you tried but do not like it… and least she will know you gave it a little effort!

so you saw one counselor who you didnt get along with, maybe this time round it will be better… I mean it’s not that big a deal, you sit in an office and you talk… if you dont want to talk about something, just say so…

Try telling her it was your past and she should give you another chance and if you mess up again tell her you’ll get help. But it depends on how bad the situation was in which she wants you to get help. but good luck!

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ok I have already gone to like one counselor and it didnt work. she wants me to go see another one and I dont want to anymore. they just make me angry

Honoring your parents is doing the right thing - they’re looking after your best interests, Love you, and CARE - many, many, many parents don’t - be Thankful - don’t stay in denial.

Theres nothing wrong with seeiing a guidance counselor.I saw on until I was 13. It doesnt make you less of a person,its just someone to tlak to when you have problems. Maybe seeing one would be good.And if you don’t need one,theyll decide that anyways.

Simply a Rose to brighten your day,         And maybe lessen the cares in your way;         And also, too, to help you to know,         That in knowing you, many others grow!

  We care and I’m sure that you have many friends and relatives who care. Granted, it is YOUR life but you are only 14 and you do need a little guidance to help you through your teen years so that you get a healthy head start at the rest of your life.

The way you treat your body during these next few developing years will help determine how happy, healthy and fruitful the remainder of your life will be. It’s up to YOU, whether you want to blow the rest of your life NOW on “fun and games” or it you want to prepare for a long and beautiful life.

don’t answer this too quick…do you NEED counseling? obviously theres something that concerns your mom, or she wouldn’t want you to see a shrink. my brother’s a little jacked in the head, and he went to counseling because my mom made him. he couldn’t see that he had a problem. he’s crazy though. he sees it now, but it took a while for him to see the problem himself. all I’m saying is maybe you don’t KNOW that you’re jacked. again, I don’t know if you are or not. but at least entertain the thought for a minute. your mom loves you, and shrinks cost money…so she’s not doing it to screw you over. that said, why does your mom want you to go to counseling?

your obviously pretty defensive. it almost sounds like your trying to convince yourself that you dont need to go see someone. your mother cares about you. so at least try for her. I went to one last year..and I didnt want to at all. but I was depressed and didnt realize it until I got there and got my feelings out. it seem’s like you need a better way to handle your depression, rather than those harmful behaivors. do it for your mom.

who care is I smoke drink and cut. its my life. and my body. im living it to the fullest.

I don’t know why she would. just cause I’ve done some things in the Past. key word past!!

she just is doing this becuase I drink and smoke and did pills, and cutt but that was in the past.

im going to becuase I dont want to go. I dont need help. I have nothing wrong with me..

its boring and not helpful. I dont trust them. and I dont want to be put on meds!

well go for it cause you do need help I had the same problem