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Ok so I just noticed this morning the that $200 of the $250 I set a side for bills and rent at the beginning of this month wasn't in my lock box. I thought maybe I had knocked it out when digging for my spare key for my truck or maybe my roommate grabbed it to pay some of the bills early. (I leave it unlocked a lot :P). But she said she hadn't and I couldn't find the money anywhere in my room. Well something about the way she said she hadn't grabbed it made me kinda suspicious. Then I found a voice mail on my phone that said the rent payment was late. Well because I work when the rental company is open, I usually hand her my 1/2 the rent and she deposits it into her checking account and writes the check.

So after that I was really suspicious, and logged into her bank account real quick. Not only was the rent payed 1/2 a month late, but there was a $200 cash deposit from Tuesday...

Now I just don't know how to confront her. She doesn't know I know her online bank account password - I just kinda guessed it :P.

So any suggestions on whats the best way to confront her? or get her to admit she took it. We are good friends and I want to try to work through this...