How to adjust with others??

Ok I kinda understand where you are coming from. I grew up on the far outskirts of a town in Montana, a rather conservative place. I have very set views on drug use, and other things and my best mate had pretty much the same views. I started dating this girl that had lived in like 8 different states, after leaving Montana whens she was like 9, and moved back our senior year.

Anyways, done with the back story, she had a LOT of different views on almost everything. Guns, marriage, drugs, everything! She was raised in a completely different environment and had different values and standards than just about any one I had ever been close to. For me At first, I got frustrated and pissed off and we would argue about stupid stuff and I couldn’t understand her views at all!

I finally realize at some point not everyone has the same values and views as me, and eventually I realized that I had a very narrow minded view of the world. It was NOT easy to come to terms with that, and try to understand where her views and values had come from.

Ok so that was really just a story, and no answer or advice to your question. Best advice I can give is try to be tolerable to others views, and I found it help to rationally discus why she had those values and views. Once I understood the ‘why’ better I was able to be more understanding of those views.

I hope that helps some.