Ohkay,My b/f is a lil bit older than me..And I want to lose my virginity and all but I'm nervouse..I no I'm young,I'm just kind of curiouse as in how it feels is it painful? Please Answer..thanks:)
My advice is that when you do lose your virginity, try to relax. It will hurt the first few times but it helps if you are not tense. Like Sadie said, it depends on the person whether they will bleed or not. I bled a lot and felt kinda sick for a few days afterward, but that's because I'm tiny. Be sure to use protection, (condoms, birth control, ect.) because you don't want to catch anything nasty. I would usually preach and tell you to wait until you are older, but teenagers rarely listen so I'm going to tell you to use protection and don't be surprised if after the first time you have sex with this guy, he either just wants to have sex with you all the time or he breaks up with you. That's what my guy did. Although I was 18 and it was easier to handle at that age. Just be careful, kay?
Lilith
ok for me personally, it didnt hurt the first time. I just felt a bit uncomfortable, you know like pressure was being put there. it actually hurt more the second time which I felt was weird and I also bled a little the second time, not the first. but everyone is different so it may be different for you, just remember it gets easier everytime. by your 3rd or 4th time, it will be nothing. and make sure to use protection and all. and for the first time, condoms do make it a lot easier. good luck!
if your scared baby girl you aint ready!! dont give the one things you cant change or take back over a guy you think you like- trust me when your older love makin gets better- dont give it up for anyone just because hes older or has had it and wants it... your precious and deserve to be waited for... and hold onto your innocense. I lost my v card younger and to this day I wish I would have waited.
It wil be fine just relax if it does hurt it won't be bad at all just a little pain. Use lube and condems use k why jelly never use vasoline it can deteriate condems and give you a yeast infection. Only use water soluble lube.
You sure this is the right time and the right guy Don't do anything you will regret later on in life.
Good Luck
Make sure that he uses lube becasue when I lost my virginity we didnt,and I wasnt wet. It didnt really hurt but I know it could have been less painful with those things. Also make sure that he wants to do it becasue he loves you not just becasue he wants to say he took someones virginity, and make sure it means something to you. Take it slow.
Its different for every girl babee. (: For me, it hurt like hell! But, I wasnt using any type of lube, had never fingered myself, so I was VERYYY tight. After all, your breaking your hymen which is ripping skin apart. Ouchh. ha. Just stay relaxedd !
Nevaeh. <3
I havnt lost it yet either and im scared to buttt everyone has different oppinions.some bleed and some dont' its up to you when you wanna lose it bbs depends if your tight or not . most people say to use loube lots of it ...
Sadie
hey hun...u gave me advice so I will give you advice...I was kinda scared my first time, but everything turned out ok...it didnt really hurt that much for me though...everybody else has told you everything you need to know
just like Lilith said try to relax . ohh yeah and use protection . and if your boyfriend has lost it . it might be easier cause he will know what to do ' so dont worry to much and go along with it , ok ?
sadie x
Thanks(: that Sorta Helps Just Waiting For Other Answers:) I'm Really Friggin' Nervous,Because He's Older...And since That He's like used to it so haha.=]
He's a year and 1/2 not much older. yeas lol I know..And Yes he's lost it=/ I just seem to be nervouse for sme reasonn. lmao...
orighttt ? how much older is he bbs? and do you know how big he is down there aswell ? lmao and has he lost it yet?
