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How do you grind?

So theres this boy I like and were going to prom at his school together. We’ve been to parties together and I know hes a “dirty dancer”. Now I dont mind this at all… I love dancing and grinding, I just have some questions I’ve never asked, because I’ve never really worried about my dancing since I never actually liked a boy. So question… when your grinding… do you want to be going with him, like the same pattern and your bodies moving together? or do they like it better when your each dancing to your own beat/pattern and its more like friction/rubbing against each other?

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Answer #1

lol I am DEFINATELY not a dance but I have been in your situation… I am going to just repeat what I was told by my advisor. guy stands behind the girl. you are going to want to move your bodys in sync with each others, not in all different directions. his hands should be on your lower stomach and your hands should be on top of his. his genitals will probably right where your butt is, so dont be shocked lol. one of you has to lead. let him lead at first so you can get used to what he does. follow him and do the same movements he does. stick with it. apparently you’re also supposed to stick your butt out a little bit and lean forward and he is supposed to lean over you… now please don’t go 100% what I said. this is what I got from the girl who I went to prom with. (we practiced ahead of time lol) I am absolutely no dancer.. if you say he is a dirty dancer, im sure he muct have had some experience dancing. so this means that even if you look like a fool at first, you will eventually get it right and look decent lol good luck!

Answer #2

I dance a lot especially grindin move wit him make sure your a$$ is right there and close guys like that youll probly feel the guy get turned on if your doin it righthe might move back from you and watch your a$$ just go wit it the guys ussually have there hands on your stomach or low hips in the middle of it I like to make it interestin and drop it then really stick my a$$ into it guys like that good luck

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