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How do you get over being hurt so many times?

Every relationship I ever been on I been cheated on or just hurt. I know its life and it happens but how do I let go. I never want to ever be in a relationship again because of the past and I dont trust anyone. My trust is very messed up. But I dont want it to be like that I want to move on and be happy in a relationship with out letting what the past guys did effect the future’?but its easier said then done. Any advice on how to let go and be happy?

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Answer #1

I was in the same position.. It’s hard to trust people when you’ve been hurt so many times in the past.. Every time I let my guard down and let a guy in, I got hurt.. I just realized, okay.. maybe I didn’t exactly choose the right guys..and not all guys are the same. One day you’re going to meet somebody that’s right for you, somebody that will meet you as an equal, that will give you the love you deserve.. and after being hurt all those times, you’re going to appreciate him even more. It takes time, but you just need to take the risk…Just because those guys were jerks and didn’t appreciate what they had, doesn’t mean the guys in your future will, too.

Answer #2

this is just one of those problems we all have at some time or another. everyone gets hurt in relationships and it is hard. but-it can teach you about what you want in a sig. other, and what you DON’T want. if it seems like you keep dating people who hurt you, remember the one thing all those relationships have in common is you! that means: look closely at the people you seem to be attracted to. if you go for the “bad boy” because he seems exiting, you’ll probably be asking for more trouble. I’m not trying to say everything that happened to you is your fault-I’m just saying take a look at it. time will give you perspective on all this stuff, and things will get easier-people mature, you figure yourself out, etc. try and focus on your happiness in other ways than just dating, be happy and you will attract a better class of guy. good luck out there :)

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