How do I stop this stuff?

Ok, so at my school I’m basically the matchmaker. everyone I set up is together for at least two years. I dont have anyone and I mind a little because now that everyone is couple lalaland im all alone. Just today a guy that I thought I liked told me to kill myself because I was repulsive. all I did was ask a question, not even to him. I really hate it because NOT ONE guy even looks at me and it’s either have no social life or be the third wheel all the time.

Answer #1

just stop being the matchmaker then. tell your friends you feel like they dont appreaciate you and how you helped them =) I think friends are really important they should always be there for you so try and keep the friends you have and not worry about getting someone to love too much. I know it sucks but we just have to… live with what we have =P

Answer #2

You can be yourself - and more. And having an attitude doesn’t mean you’re slutty. Having attitude means that you know who you are and that you assert your individuality. If you know yourself, the right guy can be found just around the corner.

You don’t have to wait to find love - if the right fish can’t come to you, then go over to the right fish. But first you have to know what makes him tick. Like a good fisherman, he knows where the prey is and when they come out, along with studying their habits so that he catch it in his net.

You have to know first what sort of guy you really want - and stick to that criteria. Never make the mistake of picking out guys just ‘because they look hot and make you bothered. The right guy means the right complement for you - are you the sort who wants men to look at you for what you really are, and not judge how luscious your rack is? Then the noble, idealistic guys are for you (they are very romantic by the way). Are you the sort of girl who could push his guy into doing things he couldn’t believe he could do, but is capable? Look for ambitious boys - they are the best complement.

I know everything here sounds pretty deep but the general idea is there…

I hope that helped…

Answer #3

well my advise to you is… well all you can do is just be yourself and some day you will find the right guy for you all it does is it takes time and you will find the right guy for you zoe so please dont worry or be sad…I dont like people being sad =(

Answer #4

well honey your just going to have to prove everybody wrong and so then everybody will see that you really dont carre look one day there will come a guy that is right but it may not be right now but dont be so down bout it

Answer #5

aww =[ you can talk to me

Answer #6

you know I was and sorta stil am that same person as you. it sucks like yeah nice to make your friends happy but you are left out with no one to make you happy. I think what you should do is to stop looking out for everyone and try just looking out for yourself for once. its hard cause I was the exact same way so I know how it is but soon if you start just look out for yourself and no one else

Answer #7

I am myself. And I think thats the problem

Answer #8

Yea imfromspace is right and just try to be yourself

Answer #9

be confident! guys love girls that are confident and NOT STUCK UP. also, there are many fish in the sea. And you are just in a little stream. (:

most guys will b mean to you if their friends dislike you. So maybe that guy did like you, just his friends didnt.

Answer #10

STOP don’t think like that hun.

first of you need to have the right attituide and no I don’t mean become a slut, have a make over, get a hair cut, exercise anything that will make YOU feel sexy.

And secondly a relastionship can never NEVER be rushed into trust me. IT will happen when it happens and I no thats sounds gay but it couldnt be futher from the truth.

Trust me I just finished hight school so im 18 and whilee in school I only had one relastionship and that was for bout 2 days before I ended it, but now im in a wonderful realtionship with a great guy. have been for bout 5mths. My point is you have to wait for these things your guy is out there don’t give up hunny he will find you.

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