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how do I stop crying?

I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and 2 weeks today, he’s made me happier than ever, but he’s upsetting me every single night, everything I do, is my fault, I was on holiday for 2 weeks, and every single night I was crying because he was shouting at me, calling me names the lot, he even finished me the day before our year and said he doesnt want me nomore, he doesnt like me or anything (and we we’re planning on having a kid) he lied about wanting one, he done it just too make me happy, we argue every single day, I cant trust him even after this long, I dont like him speaking too any girls atal, he doesnt like me speaking too any boys, so we dont, which we dont mind, but he hasn’t been out in ages and is wanting to do his room next weekend instead of seeing me, I gave him a choice of seeing me next weekend or doing his room, he choose to do his room instead of seeing me, I duno what too do, im on the phone too him at the moment, im madly in love with him and I want to be with him, I just dont want to argue or anything, he doesn’t pay any attention 2 me atal, if I spend 5-6 hours trying to look nice for him he doesn’t even notice, when we split up tonight I was crying non stop for nearly an hour, till I couldn’t breathe, every where I look reminds me of him, I duno what too do, any advice? thankyou x

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Answer #1

Girl I know what your going threw. I’m going threw that right now. It sucks! Hurts. It’s been a year and three months. I’ve been crying every night for three months now. He leaves and goes. And I always take him back. I know he has me wraped around his finger. I don’t do anythiing. I haven’t even answered my friends call for like Two months now. but I’m going to tell you to do something I wish I could. Tell him how you feel and whats going on. Tell him straight up that things need to be better.

Answer #2

really the only thing you can do is try to pick yourself up and move forward everyone has had that loved one where it just doesnt work out but you have to remember you still have most of your life to live go out and live it meet new people make friends go camping swimming etc anything that makes life bearable and after awhile the pain goes away and you see people who care about you and want you to be happy

Answer #3

I no that is seems like the end of the world and nothing with be the same, nothing will make you happy again but you need to believe it will change. you have to be strong and be greatful you had some great moments and love with your boyfriend. ever if everything reminds you of him try to think of the good tmes and not him if thats not possible then go out with friends, make new memories. and remember you will find a greater love. if he doesnt give you attention, time or calls you names or treats you anything less then perfect he is not the one for u.

Answer #4

After being with somebody as long as yall have been together I know it sucks…I have went through the same thing a while back…but the thing is when somebody knows that they have you a certain way and he knows you want leave him…Right now he is treating you like dirt because he knows he can…U need to know that you deserve a whole lot better…its time to move on…its going to be one of the hardest things ever but it has to be done…go out with friends, stp answering his calls(which is super hard), do sumthin 4 u…if he wants you back you will know and then you should consider it then…Hes a jerk…Treat him the way he does u

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