How do I make sure I wont hurt her?

last night I fingered my girlfriend so she would get wet. But when we started to have sex she sais she was in so much pain so I stopped and comforted her. She wants to try again tonight but now im scared that I will hurt her and I love her a lot. How do I make sure I wont hurt her?

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Answer #1

Start out real slow use lubracant or saliva works good to and ask her what pleases her the most play with her clit some

Answer #2

sex hurts all girls for the first few times. just be very gentle and use lubrication if you can.

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