please help. I dont want first time sex to be alkward or painful. so please help me. how can I make myself break my hymen? + will this make sex or me more comfotable and I wont bleed!!??!! ty x
some girls are born without a hymen and it also gets broken by things like masturbating, fingers, sex toys, tampons, horse riding, bicycle riding, aggressive sports and exercise so your hymen can be broken long before you have sex for the first time and no, not having a hymen wont make it hurt any less if your not comfortable ad relaxed, sex will hurt also if hes a bit big and you could still bleed if he goes to rough also remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education
Uber heavy masturbation I guess is the only way. Or use a lot of super-size tampons when you don't really need them. It will be much less likely to hurt if you have a lot of foreplay before sex and really get in the mood. If his p-nis is big then it still could hurt your first time. Hey you know they say- no pain no gain. I figure it either is painful only the first time or it gradually gets better. It's also dependent on how in-the-mood you are, of course. :)
have sex with a stranger:D
